生活中，我們要與這幾種人保持距離

　　人生就是與他人分分合合的過(guò)程，有的人能讓你發(fā)現(xiàn)生命中的小確幸，有的人卻總能讓你生活在“水深火熱”中。

　　你有沒(méi)有碰見(jiàn)過(guò)下面這些類型的人呢?要是碰到了就趕緊遠(yuǎn)離吧，生活還是“清凈”一點(diǎn)為好~

1. People are jealous and critical of you.

　　總是嫉妒和批評(píng)你的人。

　　Nonstop criticism. Such people can hear nobody but themselves. Criticism is their basic instinct, and they criticize whatever you say or do.

　　無(wú)休止的批評(píng)。這樣的人眼里只有自己，誰(shuí)的話也聽(tīng)不進(jìn)去。批評(píng)是他們的本能，無(wú)論你說(shuō)什么做什么，他們總是挑刺兒。
 

　　Jealousy of even your smallest achievements. Such people will never be happy for your success because they think they are the only ones who deserve to be respected and praised. They are so insecure that they treat everyone like enemies.

　　即使你取得的只是一個(gè)非常小的成就，他們也會(huì)嫉妒不已。這樣的人永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)為你的成功而感到高興，因?yàn)樗麄冋J(rèn)為只有他們才值得被尊重、被贊揚(yáng)。他們沒(méi)什么安全感，所以把每個(gè)人都當(dāng)作假想敵。

　　
2. People take everything you do for them for granted.

　　認(rèn)為你為他們做的一切都是理所當(dāng)然的人。

　　Such people take everything for granted, and there is nothing they see as extraordinary. You cooked a holiday dinner not because you wanted to make your soul mate happy but because you had to. Despite such obvious indifference, many people choose not to notice it. Put yourself first there are a lot of grateful and decent people around.

　　這種人認(rèn)為一切都理所當(dāng)然。你做了一頓假日大餐，不是因?yàn)槟阆胱屇愕撵`魂伴侶開(kāi)心，而是因?yàn)檫@是你應(yīng)該做的。盡管這種人的冷漠表現(xiàn)得很明顯，但是許多人還是選擇不去在意。不要這樣傻啦，試試把自己的需求放在第一位，放眼望去，身邊還是有很多會(huì)感恩很正派的人的。

　　
3. People are being parasites.

　　非常懶惰的“寄生蟲(chóng)”。

　　Such people are not interested in your feelings and needs at all. They get their footing thanks to you, but they still think that nobody deserves anything more than they do. Living with such people is a challenge. They influence not only your mood and financial situation but also your professional growth.

　　這樣的人不在乎你的感情和需求。托你的福，他們有了立足之地，但他們?nèi)匀徽J(rèn)為沒(méi)有人比他們更有資格得到任何東西。和這樣的人一起生活是一個(gè)巨大的挑戰(zhàn)，因?yàn)樗麄儾粌H影響你的情緒和財(cái)務(wù)狀況，還影響你的職業(yè)發(fā)展。

　　
4. People are manipulating you.

　　想掌控你生活的人。

　　Small favors are no big deal. However, if you feel like you are in a hamster wheel without a good reason, you are being manipulated. Such people can give you nothing but a headache. They love it when their dreams come true and when their goals are reached. They never give, only take. If you stop falling into their traps, they will most likely start looking for a new puppet.

　　小恩小惠沒(méi)什么大不了的。然而，如果不知怎么的，你感覺(jué)自己好像身處牢籠，這時(shí)你可能就已經(jīng)被操縱了。這樣的人只會(huì)讓你頭痛，當(dāng)他們實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想達(dá)到目標(biāo)時(shí)，他們就會(huì)喜歡操縱別人。這樣的人從不給予，只會(huì)索取。如果你不再受他們控制了，他們很可能會(huì)開(kāi)始尋找一個(gè)新的木偶。

你身邊是不是有這樣的人呢?但愿沒(méi)有，要是有的話還是早日脫離“苦海”的好，你說(shuō)是吧?