打破尷尬的6個妙招，交際達人都在用

前兩天小編瀏覽外網(wǎng)Bright Side時發(fā)現(xiàn)了一些緩解尷尬的小妙招，一起來漲姿勢吧！

1. Show your interest in the person you're talking to. People just love to talk about themselves, so to break the ice, let them talk. Listen carefully, and try to look interested in what the other person says.

對與你交流的人表現(xiàn)出興趣。人們喜歡談?wù)撟约海砸氪蚱平┚?，就讓他們暢所欲言。認真聆聽，盡量對他們談?wù)摰膬?nèi)容表現(xiàn)出感興趣的樣子。

2. Avoid Yes/No questions. When talking to someone, try to ask more open-ended questions. For example, instead of asking “Are you having a good time?"ask" How did you find out about this event?”

不要提答案為“是”或“否”的問題。跟別人交流時，盡量問答案更加開放的問題。比如，不要問“玩兒得開心嗎？”這類問題，而要多問“你是怎么知道這件事的？”這類問題。

open-ended 英 ['??p?n'end?d]  美 ['op?n'?nd?d] 

adj. 開放式的；無限制的；自由回答的；兩端未封閉的

3. Let the other person explain things you don't know. If the person you're talking to mentions something new to you, ask him or her to explain this thing to you. Thus, your conversation will last longer.

讓另一方向你解釋你不懂的東西。如果與你談話的人提到了一些新事物，讓TA跟你解釋這些新事物。這樣你們的對話就能長一些。

4. Read the news. You may not like reading the latest news very much, but you'll find it very useful to revive a conversation that has come to an uncomfortable silence. Try a simple “Did you hear about what happened there?”

讀新聞。你可能不太喜歡讀時事新聞，但是當你們的對話陷入沉默時你就會發(fā)現(xiàn)新聞的用處了。你可以說“你聽說了最近發(fā)生的事嗎？”

5. Share your experience. If the other person mentions something familiar to you or you’ve also gone through the same situation, don’t hesitate to share your experience. This way you two will become closer.

分享經(jīng)歷。如果另一方提到了你也熟悉的一些事，或者你剛好經(jīng)歷了同樣的事情，不要猶豫去分享經(jīng)歷。這樣你倆就能變得更親近一些。

6. Feed their self-esteem. A compliment and a smile can go a long way. Compliments immediately draw people's attention and interest. But be honest, and don't exaggerate!

滿足他們的自尊心。稱贊和微笑很受用。稱贊能很快吸引人們的注意力，勾起他們對你的興趣。但是要實事求是地稱贊，不要太夸張！

這些小技巧你get到了嗎？下次不妨用上哦，會有意想不到的結(jié)果呢！