第十九課 自制
Self-control is essential to happiness andusefulness.
自制是快樂及有為不可或缺的部分。
It is the master of all the virtues, and has its root inself-respect.
它主宰所有的美德,并扎根于自尊。
Let a man yield to his impulses and passions, andfrom that moment he gives up his moral freedom.
一個人若受到沖動、感情用事支配的話,從那一刻起他便放棄了他的道德自由。
It is the self-discipline of a man that enables him to pursue success with superior diligenceand sobriety.
自律使人能夠更加勤奮、更加冷靜地來追求成功。
Many of the great characters in history illustrate this trait.
歷史上許多偉人都展現(xiàn)了這樣的特質。
In ordinary life the application is the same.
自律亦可同樣運用在日常生活中。
He who would lead must first command himself.
欲領導他人的人必須先統(tǒng)御自己。
The time of test is when everybody is excited or angry, then the well一balanced mind comes tothe front.
每個人激動生氣時,便是考驗的時刻,這時心平氣和的人便會出頭了。
There is a very special demand for the cultivation of this trait at present.
目前最需要培養(yǎng)這種特質了。
The young men who rush into business with no good education or drill will do poor and feverishwork.
沒有受過良好的教育或磨練便匆匆投入商場的小伙子,做起事來一定是差勁而毛躁。
Endurance is a much better test of character than act of heroism.
忍耐要比逞英雄更能考驗品德。
A fair amount of self-examination is good,Self-knowledge is a preface to self-control.
適度的自我檢討很不錯。若有自知之明方能自制。
Too much self-inspection leads to morbidness; too little conducts to careless and hastyaction.
不過過度的自我檢討會成為病態(tài),檢討不足則又導致行事粗心草率。
There are two things which will surely strengthen our self-control.
有兩件事肯定會增強我們的自制力。
One is attention to conscience; the other is a spirit of good will.
其一是注重良知,其二是心懷善意。
The man who would succeed in any great undertaking must hold all his faculties under perfectcontrol;
若要實現(xiàn)任何偉大的抱負獲得成功就必須妥善掌控自己的才能;
they must be disciplined and drilled until they quickly and cheerfully obey the will.
他必須要先加以約束、磨練這些才能,它們方能迅速而又愉快地服從他的心意。