In my own life, I make every effort to always accept full responsibility for my decisions—both good and bad. Doing so has played a critical role in helping me make better decisions. I believe this is because when you hold yourself accountable for your mistakes, you learn important lessons from those painful experiences that help you avoid making the same mistake or bad decision again.
我的人生中,我總是盡力的為我的決定承擔(dān)責(zé)任---無論好與壞。這樣做對幫我做出更好的決定起到了很大的決定。我覺得敢于為自己的錯(cuò)誤負(fù)責(zé)、從這些痛苦的經(jīng)歷中得到教訓(xùn)能幫助你避免以后再犯同樣的錯(cuò)誤或做出相同的錯(cuò)誤決定。
Three Keys to Accepting Responsibility
敢于承擔(dān)責(zé)任的三個(gè)關(guān)鍵點(diǎn)
As a foundation for considering the essential elements of accepting responsibility, let’s break out what BP Chairman Carl-Henric Svanberg said:
正如接受責(zé)任的要素的基礎(chǔ),讓我們打破BP董事長Carl-Henric Svanberg所說的話:
1. Self-Examination
1.自省
“We are taking a hard look at ourselves, what we do and how we do it.”
我們正在努力的尋找自己,什么能做以及怎么去做
The first step in accepting responsibility is to reflect on your action or decision. Before you can make anything right or apologize for a mistake, you have to have a clear understanding of where you went wrong.
承擔(dān)責(zé)任的第一步是你在行為和決定上的放映。在你能把事情做對或者為錯(cuò)誤道歉之前,你必須清楚地知道你哪兒錯(cuò)了。
2. Learning
2.學(xué)習(xí)
“What we learn will have implications for our ways of working, our strategy, and our governance.”
我們學(xué)到的東西會(huì)影響我們工作、戰(zhàn)略以及統(tǒng)治的方式。
Once you have a clear idea of what went wrong, you must ask yourself what you learned as a result. If you experience a success, what led to it and how can you capitalize on this knowledge in the future? If you made a mistake, what kinds of actions or thinking got you into hot water? Are your priorities in the right order? Is your focus in the right place?
一旦你清楚的知道你做錯(cuò)了什么,你會(huì)問自己你從中學(xué)到了什么。如果你經(jīng)歷的是成功,它會(huì)帶來什么以及在以后把現(xiàn)在的成功轉(zhuǎn)化為資本?如果你犯了錯(cuò),什么樣的行為或想法會(huì)讓你陷入困境?你能分清輕重緩急嗎?你能集中精力在對的地方嗎?
3. Change
3.改變
“BP will change as a result of this accident.”
BP因此事故將發(fā)生改變
Self-examination and learning by themselves are not enough. If we are serious about becoming someone who accepts responsibility for our actions and desire the benefits that come with it, we must also commit to and follow through with change. Continue what’s working and change what isn’t.
自省和自我學(xué)習(xí)是遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)不夠的。如果我們真想成為敢于為自己行為負(fù)責(zé)任的人并希望從中受益的人,我們接下來必須要改變。接著做有效地,改變那些沒有作用的。
A Good Place to Start
找一個(gè)好的起點(diǎn)
I want to strongly encourage you to commit from this point forward to accept 100% responsibility for your actions and decisions? If you’re wondering where to start, here are some areas I believe are essential:
我強(qiáng)烈的鼓勵(lì)你們從100%的接受你們的行為和決定這個(gè)方向做起,如果你不知道從哪開始,這里有一些很基本的方面供參考
Accept responsibility for where you find yourself today.
Accept responsibility for the state of your marriage.
Accept responsibility for your children.
Accept responsibility for the state of your other relationships.
If you aspire to be a leader in your personal and professional life, begin by accepting full responsibility for everything you undertake and never pass the buck when things go wrong.
接受這些責(zé)任:你今天的位置、你的婚姻狀況、你的孩子、你的人際關(guān)系。如果你想在私人生活或者職業(yè)生活中都成為個(gè)領(lǐng)導(dǎo),那就從對你從事的所有事情承擔(dān)全部的責(zé)任,當(dāng)事情出錯(cuò)時(shí)不推卸責(zé)任做起。