美國歌手達(dá)柳斯·拉克說，從離婚中學(xué)到了“很多”關(guān)于自己的東西：“生活還在繼續(xù)”

For Darius Rucker, divorce has been a learning experience.

對達(dá)柳斯·拉克來說，離婚是一次學(xué)習(xí)經(jīng)歷。

The Hootie & the Blowfish frontman, 57, opened up about his split from estranged wife Beth Leonard — which he announced on social media in July 2020 — in a new episode of Apple Music’s Today's Country Radio with Kelleigh Bannen.

這位57歲的Hootie&The Blowfish樂隊主唱在蘋果音樂的《今日鄉(xiāng)村電臺》與Kelleigh Bannen的新一期節(jié)目中公開了他與分居的妻子Beth Leonard的分手消息——他于2020年7月在社交媒體上宣布了這一消息。

When asked what he has learned about himself through his divorce from Leonard, 56, after 20 years of marriage, Rucker said, “A lot.”

當(dāng)被問及在與56歲的倫納德結(jié)婚20年后離婚，他對自己了解了什么時，魯克說：“很多。”

He quickly elaborated, telling host Bannen, “I learned how there’s help out there for people.”

他很快詳細(xì)闡述了這一點，并告訴主持人Bannen：“我學(xué)到了如何為人們提供幫助。”

"You know, being raised the way I was and where I was, that’s not always … and in the Black community especially, that’s frowned upon a lot, too,” continued Rucker, who was born and raised in South Carolina. “But I learned that there’s a lot of people out there that’ll talk to you, that’ll help you a lot.”

在南卡羅來納州出生和長大的魯克繼續(xù)說道：“你知道，以我以前和現(xiàn)在的方式長大，這并不總是……尤其是在黑人社區(qū)，這也很令人反感。但我了解到，有很多人會和你說話，這會對你有很大幫助。”

Rucker, who wrote the emotional song “Never Been Over” about his split, also said that music has “always been my therapy.”

魯克寫了一首關(guān)于分手的情感歌曲《Never Been Over》，他還說音樂“一直是我的治療方法”。

Of the track — which contains the lyrics, “We've been a lot of things / But we've never been over” — the singer-songwriter said, “You write a song like that, and you sing it over and over, and you cry sometimes when you sing it.”

關(guān)于這首歌，歌詞是“我們經(jīng)歷了很多事情/但我們從未結(jié)束”，創(chuàng)作型歌手說：“你寫了一首這樣的歌，你唱了一遍又一遍，有時你唱的時候會哭。”

“It’s just one of those songs, and I love it,” he said, adding that when he finished it, he “was like, ‘Man, that was therapy right there.’”

“這只是其中一首歌，我喜歡它，”他說，并補充說，當(dāng)他完成這首歌時，他“想，‘伙計，這就是治療。’”

The “Only Wanna Be with You” singer also said that when it comes to the guilt surrounding the divorce, his “50-something self is a lot more forgiving than the mid-20-something self” — because he needs to be.

這位“只想和你在一起”的歌手還說，當(dāng)談到離婚帶來的內(nèi)疚時，他“50多歲的自己比20多歲的自我要寬容得多”——因為他需要這樣。