別整天只顧喊累 學(xué)學(xué)工作生活平衡法

現(xiàn)代生活中，工作和生活之間總有一個(gè)平衡點(diǎn)，很多時(shí)候，來自各方面的壓力讓我們不得不過多的顧及了工作而忽略了生活。如何讓生活和工作這個(gè)蹺蹺板平衡呢?面對(duì)工作和家庭，你將如何做出選擇?英孚教育職場(chǎng)導(dǎo)師Annie精心總結(jié)了3種強(qiáng)而有力的方法，幫助你合理處理工作與生活的平衡問題，減輕壓力，最大程度地實(shí)現(xiàn)人生目標(biāo)。

There is always a balance between work and life.Many times, we have no time to pay attention to our life because our job asks the most from various external pressures. How can we balance work and family? How can we make a choice in face of work and family? This article summarizes three powerful methods to help you handle the balance between work and lifeproperly, reduce stress and realize the objective to the max.

1) 選擇合適的工作，制定好自己的人生目標(biāo)。在人生的每個(gè)發(fā)展的不同階段都有著不一樣的追求和目標(biāo)，從大局的角度出發(fā)，合理規(guī)劃自己的人生就顯尤為重要了。通過有系統(tǒng)的思考提前為自己設(shè)定好奮斗目標(biāo)，然后堅(jiān)定自己的原則，集中精力為一件事情而努力。

例如：Lizzy畢業(yè)后給自己設(shè)定的目標(biāo)是三十歲做到行政總監(jiān)的位置。這對(duì)于在育齡階段的Lizzy來說是比較艱難的選擇，她決定與老公商量暫緩生孩子計(jì)劃，先把主要的精力投入到工作當(dāng)中，她用業(yè)余的時(shí)間讀了EMBA，兩年后Lizzy順利畢業(yè)的同時(shí)也完成了自己的人生目標(biāo)--作為人事總監(jiān)參加公司年會(huì)。

Firstly, choose the right job and make a good goal in your life. There are different pursuits and goals in different stages of life, and it is particularly important to look at the whole situation and arrange your life reasonably. You should map out your objective in advance through systematic and analytical thinking, and then stick to your principles and concentrate on one thing.

For example, Lizzy made a goal to become Director of Administration when she became thirty years old. It was more difficult for her because she also wanted to have a baby and decided with her husband to hold off on having a child and put much of her energy on work. In her spare time, she prepared for and enrolled in the EMBA. Two years later, she graduated and completed her life objective-attending the company’s annual meeting as an HRdirector.

2) 學(xué)會(huì)有規(guī)律有效率地生活，工作之余合理安排時(shí)間，從而減少工作壓力。盡可能多地從你的工作中賺取可供自己自由支配的時(shí)間，以期獲得更大的工作彈性。如果你在工作過程中足夠投人，有足夠強(qiáng)的時(shí)間觀念，你就會(huì)擁有更高的工作效率，在你完成這項(xiàng)工作后，你會(huì)贏得一個(gè)從此任務(wù)轉(zhuǎn)換到彼任務(wù)的過渡時(shí)間，這就是從自己的工作中賺取的時(shí)間。

例如：Cindy是某科技產(chǎn)品公司的項(xiàng)目開發(fā)總監(jiān)，盡管每天的工作都很繁忙，但她依然可以做到按時(shí)高效率的完成。而在完成某一大項(xiàng)目之后，她都會(huì)給自己一個(gè)獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)，用在工作中賺取的時(shí)間享受休假或者帶家人一起旅游，精神充電后再以最佳狀態(tài)回到工作中。

Secondly, learn to live modestly, efficiently and give yourself time after work to reduce stress. In order to excel as much as possible to gain work flexibility, allow yourself free time. If you are dedicated enough to work and have a strong sense of punctuality, you will work more efficiently. After getting the work done, you will gain the free time between tasks and this is time you gained form the work.

For instance, Cindy is a director of project development in a science and technology company. Although she is very busy, she could always give herself a reward after completing a major project. That is to say she uses the time she earned in work to enjoy her holiday or take her family traveling around. After this mental recharge, she will go back to work as her best self.

3) 認(rèn)清自己的能力，給自己安排合理的工作量，然后空出時(shí)間陪伴家人或享受個(gè)人生活。不要太過于追求完美或急于求成。人一天的時(shí)間是有限的，不要太過于追求完美或急于求成，在一個(gè)工作日內(nèi)塞入盡可能多的工作量是不現(xiàn)實(shí)的，不但無法提高工作效率反而會(huì)增加犯錯(cuò)的幾率。

例如：Eric是一家上市公司部門總監(jiān)，有著自己的一套工作法則，他覺得人的精力是有限的，因此，他每天早上都會(huì)給自己制定出一份詳細(xì)的工作計(jì)劃表同時(shí)也會(huì)留出一定的時(shí)間來應(yīng)對(duì)突如起來的變化或者緊急情況。如果工作任務(wù)提前完成，Eric就會(huì)約朋友去健身、喝茶或者回家陪家人孩子。

Thirdly, realize your own ability and set realistic expectations for your workload. After that, find time to spend with family or enjoy your life. There is only a certain amount of hours in the day so you had better not be a perfectionist and avoid the pitfalls of rushing forward. It is impractical to do as much work as possible in one weekday and that will not improve your work efficiency. On the contrary, it increases the chances for mistakes.

For example, Eric is a department director in a listed company. He has his own set of work rules and he thinks a person’s energy is limited so he could make a detailed schedule every morning and at the same time, put some time aside to deal with unexpected changes and emergencies. If he gets his work finished early,he will make arrangements with friends for the gym, drinking tea or going home to his family.