這就是為什么她從來(lái)都不快樂(lè)

我的一個(gè)很好的朋友最近來(lái)找我。

She said she felt tired. Really tired.

她說(shuō)她覺(jué)得好累。真的好累。

Her family was starting to drive her crazy.

她的家人已經(jīng)要把她逼瘋了。

She wanted to live her own life. But her family always had some other plans for her.

她想過(guò)自己的生活。但她的家人總是為她安排了別的計(jì)劃。

She has her own personality. But her family always wanted her to become someone else.

她有自己的個(gè)性，但她的家人總是希望她成為另外一個(gè)人。

And her choice was always to give in.

而她的選擇，一直都是讓步。

She doesn't want to hurt her family. So she chooses to compromise.

她不想傷害她的家人。所以她總是選擇妥協(xié)。

And that's why she never felt happy.

這就是為什么她從來(lái)都不快樂(lè)。

I, on the other hand, am living a completely different life.

而另一方面，我過(guò)的是一種完全不同的生活。

I love my family. But I make my own dicisions.

我愛(ài)我的家人。但我自己做決定。

I am an independent individual. I have my boundaries that not even my family have the right to trespass.

我是一個(gè)獨(dú)立的人。我有自己的權(quán)力邊界，即使是家人也無(wú)權(quán)跨越。

Yeah, some relatives don't like me because of this. And that's good.

沒(méi)錯(cuò)，確實(shí)有一些親戚因?yàn)檫@而不喜歡我。但這挺好的。

I can't please everyone and I don't plan to.

我不能讓所有人都高興，也不打算讓所有人都高興。

I tried to persuade that friend of mine to live like me.

我試著勸我這個(gè)朋友也像我這樣生活。

But she's been hesitating.

但她一直在猶豫。

I don't know whether she will change or not eventually. I really hope she does. Because ever since I chose to live like this, my life has been getting better and better.

我不知道她終究會(huì)不會(huì)改變。我真心希望她會(huì)。因?yàn)樽詮奈易约哼@樣生活以后，我過(guò)得越來(lái)越好了。

It's really a good choice.

這真的是一個(gè)很棒的選擇。