第一次給美女打電話該說啥？

        Hey, it’s Ben, from The Modern Man. One of the cool techniques I talk about at the Dating Power seminar is the Caller Guessing Technique. This is a very interesting and unique technique that you can use when you make that first phone call to a girl to really avoid that awkward moment, that awkward tension that usually happens when you make that first call. So, check it out.

　　大家好，我是“現(xiàn)代男人”的本。我在“約會(huì)能力”培訓(xùn)班中談到的一個(gè)很棒的技巧便是“揣測(cè)誰的來電”。這是一個(gè)非常有趣而且非常獨(dú)特的技巧，它能幫助你在第一次給某個(gè)女孩打電話的時(shí)候避免尷尬——這種尷尬的緊張情緒通常在你們的這種初次通話中出現(xiàn)。嗯，來聽聽吧。

　　This is very important. This is like a critical point from, you’ve done all that greatwork, you’ve been out interacting, you’ve got her phone number, now it’s like ‘Right, I’ve, I’ve,OK, I’ve got to move forward with this, I’ve gotta take some steps. I need to set up a date to really get to that point where I can establish some sort of dating relationship’ ,whatever it is that you’re looking for.

　　首次通話非常重要。你能做的都做了，你們已經(jīng)面對(duì)面交流過了，你已經(jīng)拿到了她的電話號(hào)碼，相對(duì)于這些而言，首次通話就像一個(gè)臨界點(diǎn)?，F(xiàn)在，你在尋思，“好了，我已經(jīng)……已經(jīng)……好吧，我得再進(jìn)一步，我得采取點(diǎn)行動(dòng)才行。我需要先約她出來一次，才能真正達(dá)到建立某種關(guān)系的地步”——不管你期望是什么關(guān)系，你都得先約到她。

　　Why is calling important? Again,it demonstrates confidence; it’s the critical point of moving your interaction forward. So you just need to do it. There’s no two ways about it, just…you need to make that call. Now, there are some guidelines that we’re gonna give you to make that call a lot easier,and these are very effective things that you should follow before and during that first call. The reason why so many guys struggle with the first call, is simply because they don’t know what to do, they don’t know what to say, they don’t know what the structure should be on the phone.

　　為什么打電話很重要呢？還是那句話，首次通話能表現(xiàn)出你的自信，是推動(dòng)你的交流前進(jìn)的臨界點(diǎn)。所以你必須要走出這一步。沒有第二個(gè)選擇，你需要打這通電話?，F(xiàn)在，我們要給你提供一些指導(dǎo)，幫助你更輕松地打出這通電話。這些指導(dǎo)都很有效，你應(yīng)該在首次通話前及通話中貫徹下去。有那么多男人糾結(jié)于首次通話的原因僅僅在于，他們不知道該做什么，不知道該說什么，不知道通話時(shí)的條理性是怎樣的。