既然是合作,我們?cè)谂c他人合作的時(shí)候,有時(shí)候也必須遷就對(duì)方的意愿,不可能事事都“如己所愿”。即使我們存有保留意見,我們要學(xué)會(huì)“遷就”這門學(xué)問,不能時(shí)時(shí)事事按自己的意愿行事。否則,我們的合作是失敗的,一旦合作失敗,我們就“朋友”變成了“敵人”。失敗的合作是引起“唇槍舌戰(zhàn)”的導(dǎo)火索,甚至是將來“暗箭傷人”的導(dǎo)火索。
今天,我們就來看看“按照別人的意愿辦事”在英文中用一個(gè)有趣的詞語如何來說。我們就先來聽下面的2個(gè)句子:
例句-1:We need the Committee's approval for this scheme. Do you think they'llplay ballwith us.
例句-2:She wanted me to go to Scotland by car with her so that her holiday would cost less, but I wouldnot play ballwith her.
從我們剛才聽到的這2個(gè)句子中,都可以聽到同一個(gè)詞語:play ball。這是一條動(dòng)詞性習(xí)慣用語。習(xí)語中的play是“玩”的意思,ball是指“球”,play ball的意思當(dāng)然就是“打球”了。除了“打球”這個(gè)意思外,它還有作為習(xí)慣用語的意思,意思是to agree to do something the way someone else wants you to(按照某人的意愿行事)。要強(qiáng)調(diào)“按照某人的意愿行事”中的“某人”二字的意思,在短語的后面加上介詞with即可,即:play ball with sb。
我們?cè)偻ㄟ^4個(gè)例句來體會(huì)這個(gè)習(xí)語的意思和運(yùn)用這個(gè)習(xí)語:
1.He is very helpful and it is easy toplay ball withhim.他非??蠋兔?,與他合作很容易。
2.The Congress is refusing toplay ball withthe President on this bill.關(guān)于這項(xiàng)法案,國(guó)會(huì)拒絕與總統(tǒng)合作。
3.Look, youplay ball withme and tell me who your boss is, and maybe we can get the judge to take it easy on you.你聽著,你要是現(xiàn)在和我合作,告訴我你的老板是誰,這樣也許我們可以讓法官對(duì)你寬大處理。
附注:take it easy on sb:對(duì)某人款待處理,對(duì)某人要求不苛刻,對(duì)某人要求不嚴(yán)厲
Eg. Take it easy on your son and don't scold him too much.對(duì)你兒子不要操之過急,不要過分責(zé)罵他。
4.To get his programs passed through the congress, a president sometimes has toplay ball withmembers of the opposing party and do them favors in return for their votes.
譯文:作為一個(gè)總統(tǒng), 為了讓國(guó)會(huì)通過他的計(jì)劃,有的時(shí)候也不得不和反對(duì)黨的成員合作,給他們一些好處,以換取他們的選票。
附注1:pass through:通過
Eg.He has passed through a college for years but now he is still between the jobs.他已經(jīng)大學(xué)畢業(yè)多年了,但是如今還是沒有找到工作。
附注2:opposing party:反對(duì)黨,(法律)對(duì)方當(dāng)事人
附注3:do sb a favor:給予某人恩惠,給某人好處,幫助某人
Eg.It's sound policy to do a favor before seeking one.先助人后求助是良策。
Eg.Would you do me a favor to translate it into Chinese?你能不能幫忙翻譯成漢語?
附注4:in return:作為回報(bào),作為報(bào)答
Eg. Ibought him a drink in return for his help.我請(qǐng)他喝酒以酬謝他的幫助.
Eg.What do we give them in return?我們以什么來報(bào)答他們呢?
我們現(xiàn)在知道最初聽到的2個(gè)例句中的關(guān)鍵詞語的意思,現(xiàn)在我們就回到它們中來看看他們的意思。
例句-1:We need the Committee's approval for this scheme. Do you think they'll play ball with us?
這句話是說:我們的這項(xiàng)計(jì)劃需要委員會(huì)的同意,你認(rèn)為他們會(huì)和我們合作嗎?
例句-2:She wanted me to go to Scotland by car with her so that her holiday would cost less, but I would not play ball with her.
這句話是說:她想讓我和她一起乘車去蘇格蘭度假,這樣她的度假開支就可以減少,可是我不愿意。
我們今天的這招說Cooperation(合作)—— play ball with sb,意思是按照別人的意愿行事。只要我們心中多一份理解,多一份包容,多一份退讓,我們的合作就可以成功。
最后我們一起來欣賞一首經(jīng)典的英文歌曲。It is named Yesterday Once More. Enjoy it...