How do I celebrate my birthday when I am all alone in my life?
當(dāng)我在獨(dú)自一人的時(shí)候,怎么慶祝我的生日?
I am 27, and have quit my job a few months ago to check my priorities in life.
我27歲,因?yàn)橄胍_定在人生中最重要的事是什么。
Amid the frustrations that followed, I have lost all my friends.
所以幾個(gè)月前辭了工作,緊隨其后的是,我失去了所有朋友。
I am alone right now, and by that, I really mean there is no one who would care for my birthday.
我現(xiàn)在是孤身一人,我的意思是真的沒有人會(huì)在乎我的生日。
My birthday is later next week. I wish to make it special but have no clue how.
我下周就過生日了,我想要讓這個(gè)生日特別一些,但是毫無頭緒,不知道怎么做。
It happened to me once. I bought a large cake and other goodies and went to the park.
我也曾遇到過這樣的事,我?guī)系案夂推渌澄锶チ斯珗@。
I laid them out and waved to passing strangers who were alone and said, "It's my birthday, come, have a piece of cake."
我把它們都擺出來,朝著獨(dú)自路過的陌生人們招手并對(duì)他們說:“今天是我的生日,過來吃塊蛋糕吧?!?/p>
It worked a treat. Have a practice birthday to try it. There is no shortage of lonely people.
這簡直棒極了。過生日的時(shí)候試試這種做法,做孤獨(dú)的人沒什么不好的。
You're right that sitting around on your birthday isn't a good idea.
你說得對(duì),在生日時(shí)坐在那兒無所事事并不是個(gè)好主意。
I suggest doing something new.
我建議你做些新奇的事情。
Get out of the house. Try a different kind of food. Go to the movies.
走出家門,嘗嘗不一樣的食物。
Plan a short road trip. Go listen to some music. Enjoy your own company.
計(jì)劃一個(gè)短途旅行,聽點(diǎn)音樂,享受獨(dú)處時(shí)光。
Don't re-enter your house until you've had a little adventure.
在你經(jīng)歷過一次小小的冒險(xiǎn)之前別回家。
Good luck. We've all been there. It will get better.
祝你好運(yùn),我們一直在這里,一切都會(huì)變得更好。