反駁別人還在說(shuō)“I don't think so”？情商太低了！

在工作場(chǎng)合或大學(xué)里，與同事和朋友，進(jìn)行商務(wù)會(huì)議或與你的教授討論問(wèn)題，有時(shí)是有必要表示不同意或說(shuō)不的。

And that is ok! In English-speaking culture, it is important to share your opinion and express your ideas. But how should you do that in English politely?

這沒(méi)關(guān)系!在英語(yǔ)文化中，分享你的觀點(diǎn)和表達(dá)你的想法是很重要的。但是怎么用英語(yǔ)禮貌地表達(dá)不同意這件事呢?

With this lesson, you'll learn the best English phrases you can use to show you disagree in both formal and informal situations without offending anyone. These expressions will also help you learn how to share your opinion.

在這節(jié)課中，你將學(xué)習(xí)在正式和非正式場(chǎng)合能最好表達(dá)你的不同意見(jiàn)而同時(shí)又不會(huì)冒犯別人的英語(yǔ)短語(yǔ)。這些表達(dá)也會(huì)幫助你學(xué)會(huì)如何分享你的觀點(diǎn)。

But one thing is important to remember: Always stay calm.

但有一件事很重要，要記住：永遠(yuǎn)保持冷靜。

Keep your voice and your body movements calm that will help you and the other person feel good about the disagreement. The goal is for everyone to walk away from the disagreement happy (or at least not angry).

讓你的聲音和肢體動(dòng)作保持平靜，這將有助于你和對(duì)方保持里良好的感受。這樣做的目的是讓每個(gè)人都能愉快地(或至少不生氣)結(jié)束分歧。

The most polite way to disagree with someone is to use one of these strategies when introducing your disagreement:

表達(dá)不同意見(jiàn)最禮貌的方式是在表達(dá)不同意見(jiàn)時(shí)使用以下策略之一

①show that you understand the other person’s opinion

表現(xiàn)出你理解對(duì)方的觀點(diǎn)

②apologize before introducing your disagreement

在提出異議之前先道歉

③pretend to be in the middle or unsure about your position

假裝中立或不確定

例句

1

I see what you’re saying but I think…

我知道你說(shuō)的是什么意思但是我覺(jué)得...

2

I take your point but that isn’t the way I see it; instead, I think that…

我接受你的觀點(diǎn)但是我想地有些不同，我反而認(rèn)為...

3

True, that is a fair point, but I have to say I disagree…

是的，這個(gè)觀點(diǎn)很中肯，但是我還是想說(shuō)我有不同意見(jiàn)...

4

I understand where you are coming from but…

我了解你的出發(fā)點(diǎn)但是...

5

There is some truth to what you’re saying but don’t you think that…

你說(shuō)的確實(shí)占理但是你不覺(jué)得...

6

I respect your point but from my perspective (or but in my opinion)…

我尊重你的觀點(diǎn)，但就我的觀點(diǎn)而言...

7

I’m sorry but I have to disagree with you on…

抱歉我對(duì)...持不同的觀點(diǎn)

8

I’m sorry but I don’t agree.

抱歉但是我并不同意。

9

I’m sorry but I disagree with you on this.

抱歉但是這個(gè)問(wèn)題我不太同意你說(shuō)的。

10

I’m not sure I agree with you on…

我對(duì)于你...的觀點(diǎn)不太確定

11

I respectfully disagree.

我真心表示無(wú)法茍同。

12

I don’t think you and I have the same opinion on this issue.

我認(rèn)為我和你在這個(gè)問(wèn)題上有些不同的想法。

13

I’m afraid I disagree.

我怕是不能認(rèn)同。

With close friends and family, we can use these more informal (and often direct) expressions to say we disagree. These would not be appropriate for the workplace unless you know your colleagues very well.

對(duì)于親密的朋友和家人，我們可以用這些非正式的(通常是直接的)的表達(dá)。除非你非常了解你的同事，否則這些在工作場(chǎng)合是不合適的。

例句

1

No way!

不行!

2

You must be joking!

開(kāi)玩笑吧你!

3

You can’t be serious!

不是說(shuō)真的吧!

4

I totally disagree.

我完全不同意。

5

I don’t think so.

我不這么認(rèn)為。

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