問完這36個問題,你可以和任何陌生人墜入愛河！

　　第一部分

　　1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

　　給你一個任意的機會，你會選擇和誰共進晚餐?

　　2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

　　你想要成名嗎?以什么方式?

　　3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

　　打電話前，你會事先排演嗎?為什么?

　　4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

　　你心中一個完美的日子是怎樣的?

　　5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

　　你上次唱歌對著自己唱歌是什么時候?對著別人呢?

　　6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

　　如果你可以活到90歲，而且30歲以后身心都保持在不再變老，那這60年你想要怎么度過?

　　7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

　　關(guān)于怎么死去，你有沒有過神秘的預(yù)感?

　　8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common。

　　舉出你和你對面這位的3個共同點。

　　9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

　　你人生中最感激的是什么?

　　10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

　　如果可以改變你的成長過程，你想要改變什么?

　　11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible。

　　你只有4分鐘時間，但請在這4分鐘內(nèi)盡量詳細(xì)地對你的搭檔講述你的人生故事。

　　12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

　　如果你明天醒來時能得到一種新的能力或品質(zhì)，你想要的是什么?

　　Set Two

　　第二部分

　　13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?

　　如果水晶球可以告訴你關(guān)于你自己、你的未來、你的人生等等一切事情，你想要知道什么?

　　14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

　　有沒有什么是你夢寐以求的?但為什么沒有做?

　　15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

　　你人生中最大的成就是什么?

　　16. What do you value most in a friendship?

　　友誼中你最珍視的是什么?

　　17. What is your most treasured memory?

　　你最珍貴的回憶是什么?

　　18. What is your most terrible memory?

　　你最糟糕的記憶是什么?

　　19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

　　如果你知道你只有一年可以活了，你會改變你的生活方式嗎?為什么?

　　20. What does friendship mean to you?

　　對于你，友誼意味著什么?

　　21.What roles do love and affection play in your life?

　　愛與喜歡在你的人生中分別扮演什么角色?

　　22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items。

　　輪流分享你認(rèn)為戀人應(yīng)該具有的好品質(zhì)，總共分享5個。

　　23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

　　你的家庭親密、溫暖嗎?你覺得你的童年是不是比其他人更幸福一些?

　　24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

　　你與母親的關(guān)系怎樣?

　　Set Three

　　第三部分

　　25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “

　　用“我們”做主語造3個肯定句。比如“我們都在這間屋子里……”

　　26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “

　　補全這個句子：“我希望有人可以與我分享……”

　　27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know。

　　如果你要和對面那位成為好朋友，他或者她最應(yīng)該知道的事情是什么?請與他或者她分享。

　　28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met。

　　告訴你對面那位，你喜歡他(她)什么?必須非常誠實，說一些你可能不會和第一次見面的人說的話。

　　29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life。

　　分享一件你人生中的囧事。

　　30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

　　你上一次當(dāng)著他人的面哭是什么時候?還是獨自一人呢?

　　31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already。

　　告訴對面那位，你已經(jīng)開始喜歡他身上的一些東西。

　　32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

　　有什么事情是不能隨便開玩笑的?

　　33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

　　如果你今夜就會死去，而且沒有機會和任何人說，你最遺憾的沒有說出口的話是?為什么你還沒有告訴他們?

　　34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

　　你的家著火了，而且你所有的東西都在里面。在救出你的愛人和寵物以后，你還有機會安全救出一樣?xùn)|西。你會救什么?為什么?

　　35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

　　你的家庭中誰死去會最讓你困擾?為什么?

　　36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen。

　　分享一個你的私人困擾，并向你對面那位請求解決建議，請他(她)以自己的方式來解決。然后，再詢問他(她)對于這個問題的個人感受。