人生哲理美文20:Get a Thorough Understanding of Oneself 悟透自我
悟透自我
In all one’s lifetime it is oneself that one spends the most time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that one has the least understanding of.
人生在世，相處最多、打交道最多的就是自己，但是人最不了解的也恰恰是自己。
When you are going upwards in life you tend tooverestimate yourself. It seems that everything you seek for is within your reach; luck and opportunities will come your way and you are overjoyed that they constitute part of your worth. When you are going downhill you tend to underestimate yourself, mistaking difficulties and adversities for your own incompetence. It’s likely that you think it wise for yourself to know our place and stay aloof from worldly wearing a mask of cowardice, behind which the flow of sap in your life will be retarded.
人生走上坡路時(shí)，往往把自己估計(jì)過高，似乎一切所求的東西都能唾手可得，甚至把運(yùn)氣和機(jī)遇也看做自己身價(jià)的一部分而喜出望外。人在不得志時(shí)，又往往把自己估計(jì)過低,把困難和不利也看做自己的無能，以至把安分守己、與世無爭誤認(rèn)為有自知之明，而實(shí)際上往往被怯懦的面具窒息了自己鮮活的生命。
To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to gain a correct view of oneself and be a soberrealist-aware of both one’s strength and shortage. You may look forward hopefully to the future but be sure not to expect too much, for ideals can never be fully realized. You may be courageous to meet challenges but it should be clear to you where to direct your efforts.
悟透自己，就是正確認(rèn)識(shí)自己，也就是說要做一個(gè)冷靜的現(xiàn)實(shí)主義者，既知道自己的優(yōu)勢(shì)，也知道自己的不足。我們可以憧憬人生，但期望值不能過高。因?yàn)樵诂F(xiàn)實(shí)中，理想總是會(huì)打折扣的，我們要經(jīng)得起挑戰(zhàn)。
To get a thorough understanding of oneself needs self-appreciation. Whether you like yourself to a towering tree or a blade of grass, whether you think you are a high mountain or a small stone, you represent a state of nature that has its own reason of existence. If you earnestly admire yourself you’ll have a real sense of self-appreciation, which will give you confidence. As soon as you gain full confidence in yourself you’ll be enabled to fight and overcome any adversity.
要悟透自己就要欣賞自己。無論你是一棵參天大樹,還是一棵小草，無論你成為一座巍蛾的高山，還是一塊小小的石頭，都是一種天然，都有自己存在的價(jià)值。只要你認(rèn)真地欣賞自己，你就會(huì)擁有一個(gè)真正的自我。只有自我欣賞才會(huì)有信心，一旦擁有了信心也就擁有了抵御一切逆境的動(dòng)力。
To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to get a full control of one’s life. Then one will find one’s life full of color and flavor.
悟透了自己，才能把握住自己，你的生活才會(huì)有滋有味!
