華爾街黑珍珠超具感染力的演講：給25歲的自己最好的建議
Well hello, ladies a Morgan Stanley! This is the Power Hour. Well letter to my 25 year old self. The first thing that I would tell my 25 year old self is girl on your power.
你們好，摩根史丹利的女士們，現在是加油時間。好的，給25歲的自己的一封信。我要告訴25歲的自己的第一件事就是，女孩，盡力去拼吧。
Don't ever let anyone take your power away or make you feel that you can`t have an impact in the world just because they said so the second thing that I would tell my 25 year old self is being willing to take risks, be fearless, because fear has no place in your success equation.
不要讓任何人奪走你的力量，或者讓你覺得你不能僅僅因為他們說了那么一句話就對這個世界產生影響，我要告訴我25歲的自己的第二件事就是愿意冒險，無所畏懼，因為恐懼在你的成功等式中沒有位置。
Anytime you approach anything in your life from a position of fear, you will always under penetrate that opportunity and be careful because fear is sneaky, it comes from all kinds of places. It can come from your parents. It can come from your friends, but make sure that you don't let it impede you`re forward motion.
任何時候，當你從一個恐懼的位置接近你生活中的任何事情時，你都會低估這個機會，并且小心，因為恐懼狡猾的很，它來自各種各樣的地方。它可能來自你的父母，也可能來自你的朋友，但一定不要讓他阻礙你的前進。
Because there are two things that hold most women back fear and fatigue. The 3rd thing that I would tell my 25 year old self is just be Carla just be Carla don't try to say it. Like the boys say it, don't try to do it. Like the boys do it because you can't do it like the boys do, it because you're not the boy.
有兩樣東西攔住了大多數女性的路—恐懼和疲勞。我要告訴25歲的自己的第三件事就是做自己。不要試圖說出來。不要模仿男孩說話，不要模仿男孩做事。你不能像男孩那樣去做，因為你不是那個男孩。
But there's nobody that can be Carla the way you can be Carla. It is indeed your competitive advantage. And the secret is most people are uncomfortable in their own skin. So when they see somebody who is comfortable and confident in their own skin, they will gravitate towards you.
沒有人能像你一樣成為卡拉，這其實是你的競爭優(yōu)勢，秘訣在于大多數人在做自己時反而不自在，所以當他們看到那些自信而瀟灑的做自己的人時，他們會被吸引。
They want some of that. Your authenticity is at the heart of your power color, so don't give it away so easily. And another thing about power, the secret to growing your power is to give it away. When you empower other people, you grow your impact and your influence exponentially.
他們也想變成那樣?？ɡ?，你的真實就是你的核心力量，別輕易拋棄它，關于力量，獲得力量的秘密就是奉獻你的力量，當你給別人力量的時候，你的影響力也隨之成指數增長。
The fourth thing that I would say to myself is Carla it is so much easier to beg for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission.
我要告訴自己的第四件事就是，卡拉，請求原諒可比請求許可容易的多。
Sometimes you give people the power to tell you no simply because you ask the question. The 5th thing that I would say to myself, if you meet a man that thinks that you're too much for him, he's right.
有時候，你給了別人拒絕的權力，只是因為你問他問題了。我要說的第五件事就是，如果你遇到一個男人，他認為自己高攀不上你，他是對的。
Don't apologize for your success. You work too hard for it. So don't apologize. I'd say Carla celebrate your victories and yourself often there will be many things in life that will Challenge you.
別為你的成功感到抱歉。這是你辛辛苦苦拼來的，沒有必要道歉，我要說，卡拉，要經常為你的勝利和自己慶祝。你要面臨生活的許多挑戰(zhàn)。
That might make you sad. That might bring you down. So every time you get an opportunity to celebrate something, celebrate, say yes, do the dance. Yes, say hallelujah and celebrate your friends, they will stay loyal to you. Celebrate your friends.
他們可能會讓你難過，他們可能會打垮你。所以一旦喲慶祝的機會，那就盡情慶祝吧。大喊“太棒了”，來跳個舞吧，大喊“哈利路亞”，別忘記為朋友慶祝，他們會對你更加忠誠，為朋友慶祝吧。
Don't worry about making mistakes. Mistakes happen to everybody, makes a mistake. You're not special, because you make a mistake. There's no big deal to making a mistake. It's all in the recovery.
別害怕犯錯。每個人都會犯錯，大家都會犯錯，你不是個例，因為你犯了個錯，犯錯沒什么大不了的，重點是如何振作。
It's all in the recovery. Most people don't recover from a mistake. If you want a different change yourself, get the blessing of the lesson, get up and move on.
重點是如何振作，許多人沒辦法從失敗中振作起來，如果你像讓自己變得與眾不同，那就好好學學如何振作起來，繼續(xù)前進。
The other thing I tell myself is you don't ask, you don't get, you don't ask,you don't get. You want to get paid？ You'd better ask, you better be clear about your expectations. Spend time not only loving, but studying understanding and forgiving your parents, they will always be here. They did the best they can they could and they're just people too.
我還要告訴自己，你不要的就得不到，你不開口要，就得不到。你想要酬勞？最好去要，你需要很清楚自己的期望，花時間去愛，去學習，去理解和原諒父母，他們不會永遠都在。他們盡力了，他們也是凡人。
The other thing that I would say to myself finally is life is a journey. Enjoy the trip. You don't have to be in a hurry. Make sure that you glory in all of the accomplishments. Sit down just for a minute and say, girl, that's okay.
最后我想對自己說的是，生命就是一場旅程。請盡情享受它。你不必太著急，請為自己的成就自豪，稍微坐一會，對自己說，女孩，“沒關系的”。
Because the boys won't always tell you you did a good job. So you have to know when you did a good job, you got to get really good it`s saying girl you go this is real life Karla this ain`t no dress rehearsal go for it.
因為男號們不會告訴你“做的真好”，所以你做的很好的時候，地好好對自己說，“你真棒”，這就是人生，卡拉，沒有彩排，向前沖吧！?。?/p>
