他其實(shí)沒(méi)那么喜歡你 第68期:分手方式的選擇

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顯而易見(jiàn)

A guy says he doesn't want to be with you.

一個(gè)男人說(shuō)他再也不想跟你在一起了。

Sometimes that guy realizes he's made the biggestmistake of his life.

有時(shí)候這個(gè)男人會(huì)意識(shí)到他犯了人生中最嚴(yán)重的錯(cuò)誤。

And then sometimes he doesn't.

但是有些時(shí)候他不會(huì)。

Either way, either way, your only job is to move on with your life, and fast.

不管怎樣，無(wú)論如何，你唯一的工作就是繼續(xù)你的生活，并且要快。

He can always try to chase you down as you're running down the block.

他總能設(shè)法追到你跑步的街區(qū)。

If he does, just remember that it will sound like this: "Let's get back together." "Let's go intocounseling." "Let's try again." "I miss you. I made a mistake. I want to be with you."

如果他這么做了，記住話應(yīng)該是這么講的：“讓我們復(fù)合吧。”“讓我們?nèi)プ稍兲幇伞?rdquo;“讓我們?cè)僭囋嚢伞?rdquo;“我想你。我錯(cuò)了，我想和你在一起。”

Here's what it won't sound like: "Will you walk my dog?" "Just calling to check in." "Want to seethat movie?" "Will you go to Cousin George's wedding with me?"

而不是這么說(shuō)的：“你能幫我遛狗么?”“只是打個(gè)電話問(wèn)問(wèn)。”“想去看那部電影么?”“想跟我一起去參加喬治表哥的婚禮么?”

Here's What's Hard About This One, by Liz

這就是事情如此難辦的原因，莉茲

Oh, I don't know, how about loving someone and being with them and knowing their family andfriends and every inch of their body and seeing them naked every day and never having felt thisway before and feeling like your whole life has changed for the better and compiling hours anddays and weeks of happy memories and thinking you'll spend the rest of your life together andthen finding out that in fact he doesn't even want to see you...tomorrow.

噢，我不知道這樣會(huì)怎樣：愛(ài)上一個(gè)人，和他們?cè)谝黄?，了解他們的家人和朋友，熟悉他們身體的每一寸，每日裸裎相見(jiàn)，從未有過(guò)如此感覺(jué)，覺(jué)得自己的生活全部變的美好了起來(lái)，收集每時(shí)每刻、每日每周的快樂(lè)記憶，認(rèn)為自己會(huì)跟他共度余生，卻發(fā)現(xiàn)事實(shí)上，他明天甚至都不想再見(jiàn)到你。

And so is it so wrong to wait around looking for a glimmer, a ray, a sign of hope from him thatperhaps he has second thoughts about it?

而且在附近等待著一絲、一束、一個(gè)希望的信號(hào)，希望他能夠再考慮一下是非常錯(cuò)誤的做法。

That perhaps he has come to his senses and realized you were the best thing that everhappened to him, that no one will ever be as good to him as you were, that he won't findanyone who he can connect with on such a deep and profound level and who understands himas much as you do? Is that so wrong?

也許他會(huì)恢復(fù)理智，意識(shí)到你是他生命中最棒的存在，沒(méi)有人能比你對(duì)他更好，他再也找不到一個(gè)和你一樣相知甚深、如此理解他的人?這也是大錯(cuò)么?

Is it so wrong to continue to talk to him, see him, bake him cookies, buy him presents, burnhim CDs, feed his fish, talk to his parents, call up his friends, break into his voice mail...justkidding.

繼續(xù)和他聊天，見(jiàn)面，給他做餅干，給他買(mǎi)禮物，買(mǎi)唱片，幫他喂魚(yú)，跟他的父母交談，召集他的朋友，偷聽(tīng)他的語(yǔ)音信箱...開(kāi)玩笑罷了。

But seriously, is it so wrong to handle a breakup in a classy, mature, loving manner, whereyou keep in contact and talk and remain friendly and perhaps go to the movies on occasion?

但是認(rèn)真的說(shuō)，用有氣派的，成熟的，充滿愛(ài)意的方式來(lái)處理分手，跟對(duì)方保持聯(lián)系，聊天，友好相對(duì)，也許偶爾還一起去看電影是非常錯(cuò)誤的行為。