雙語智慧書·贏得朋友

111．贏得朋友
　　贏得朋友。朋友是第二個自己。朋友對朋友都善良而明智：在朋友之間，所有的事情都順遂如意。一個人如何，要看別人想讓他如何。如果別人想要你好，你就要贏得他們的心，這樣他們才會夸獎你。知恩圖報最具魔力--贏得別人好感之上策，是采取友好的行動。我們所擁有最多的、最好的都是有賴于別人的。我們不是與朋友為伍，就是與敵人為伴。因此，你應該每天都結交一些希望你好的人--即便不是朋友；經(jīng)過考驗之后，他們之中的某些人會成為你的心腹密友。


111．Have friends
　Have friends. A friend is a second self. Every friend is good and wise for his friend: between them everything turns to good. Everyone is as others wish him; in order that they may wish him well, he must win their hearts and so their tongues. There is no magic like a good turn, and the way to gain friendly feelings is to do friendly acts. The most and best of us depend on others; we have to live either among friends or among enemies. Seek someone every day to be a well-wisher if not a friend; by and by after trial some of these will become intimate.