雙語(yǔ)智慧書(shū)·贏得朋友

111．贏得朋友
　　贏得朋友。朋友是第二個(gè)自己。朋友對(duì)朋友都善良而明智：在朋友之間，所有的事情都順?biāo)烊缫?。一個(gè)人如何，要看別人想讓他如何。如果別人想要你好，你就要贏得他們的心，這樣他們才會(huì)夸獎(jiǎng)你。知恩圖報(bào)最具魔力--贏得別人好感之上策，是采取友好的行動(dòng)。我們所擁有最多的、最好的都是有賴(lài)于別人的。我們不是與朋友為伍，就是與敵人為伴。因此，你應(yīng)該每天都結(jié)交一些希望你好的人--即便不是朋友；經(jīng)過(guò)考驗(yàn)之后，他們之中的某些人會(huì)成為你的心腹密友。


111．Have friends
　Have friends. A friend is a second self. Every friend is good and wise for his friend: between them everything turns to good. Everyone is as others wish him; in order that they may wish him well, he must win their hearts and so their tongues. There is no magic like a good turn, and the way to gain friendly feelings is to do friendly acts. The most and best of us depend on others; we have to live either among friends or among enemies. Seek someone every day to be a well-wisher if not a friend; by and by after trial some of these will become intimate.