你認(rèn)為現(xiàn)在的學(xué)生有沒(méi)有被過(guò)多稱(chēng)贊了

今天的這段對(duì)話(huà)，在討論教育學(xué)生，
 
現(xiàn)在很多家長(zhǎng)和老師喜歡稱(chēng)贊學(xué)生，你覺(jué)得有沒(méi)有被過(guò)多稱(chēng)贊了
 
來(lái)聽(tīng)今天的講解:
 
A: Nydja, we were talking about education and praising students. Do you think that students today are praised too much?
 
妮迪亞，我們來(lái)談教育和稱(chēng)贊學(xué)生。你認(rèn)為現(xiàn)在的學(xué)生是不是被過(guò)多稱(chēng)贊了？
 
B: I do. I don't think that they need as much praise for poor work. If they're doing good work, then of course they deserve it, but this false sense of success that kids are given is really messing with their heads later on in life.
 
是的。我認(rèn)為他們做的不好就不應(yīng)該得到稱(chēng)贊。如果他們表現(xiàn)的很好，那他們當(dāng)然值得得到贊揚(yáng)，但是孩子們得到的這種虛假的成就感以后會(huì)對(duì)他們的思想產(chǎn)生不好的影響。
 
A: How so? Like how do you think it affects them later in life if they have this false sense of success as you say?
 
為什么？你所說(shuō)的那種虛假成就感會(huì)對(duì)他們以后的人生產(chǎn)生什么影響？
 
B: Well, when it comes time to really perform and to step up to the plate say in college or in their career in the future, they might not know how to do any of these skills. They've been propped up by, you know, compliments that are just full of air, so they might not really know how to go about doing something. They have a sense of entitlement that they should receive that promotion or that good grade in college, even though they did nothing to actually achieve it.
 
比如他們?cè)诖髮W(xué)或者未來(lái)職業(yè)中需要表現(xiàn)或行動(dòng)時(shí)，他們可能不知道如何應(yīng)用他們的能力。他們一直靠稱(chēng)贊支撐，他們可能不知道如何處理事情。他們有一種特權(quán)意識(shí)，認(rèn)為自己應(yīng)該得到晉升或者應(yīng)該在大學(xué)里獲得好成績(jī)，雖然他們并沒(méi)有為得到這些付出過(guò)。
 
A: Right, so do you actually ... When you were younger did you have teachers who were very strict? So if you failed, they let you know you failed?
 
好，你小時(shí)候，老師們對(duì)你嚴(yán)厲嗎？如果你失敗了，他們會(huì)讓你知道你失敗了嗎？
 
B: Yes. Yes. They let you know immediately. I had some teachers who weren't very nice at all, and maybe he polar opposite. Didn't cut you any break either. Let you know that you weren't heading anywhere fast unless you turned it around quick, so they were not about babying me or my classmates at all. It was very hard to get good grades because they graded hard. Very different from my experience with the people who were in school today.
 
會(huì)，會(huì)的。他們會(huì)馬上讓我知道。教過(guò)我的老師中有一些非常嚴(yán)厲，也有不嚴(yán)厲的老師，就像對(duì)立的兩極。他們完全不會(huì)讓你有喘息機(jī)會(huì)。他們會(huì)讓你知道，如果你不迅速扭轉(zhuǎn)局勢(shì)，那你什么都做不成，這些老師并沒(méi)有呵護(hù)我和我的同學(xué)。因?yàn)樗麄冊(cè)u(píng)分很?chē)?yán)格，所以很難得到好成績(jī)。和現(xiàn)在學(xué)校的學(xué)生完全不一樣。