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Parenthood comes with sacrifices, but dining out shouldn’t have to be one of them. Prevent food fights and meltdowns with these precautions
You Will NeedGood timing
Rehearsals
A time limit
Diversions
Food treats
Consideration
Generosity
Step 1: Time it 選擇一個(gè)恰當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)間
If your child is still a baby, feed, burp, and change them as close as possible to your departure. With any luck, they’ll sleep through the meal.
Step 2: Rehearse it 提前排練在飯店就餐的注意事項(xiàng)
With toddlers, rehearse the outing at home. Emphasize that dining out is a privilege and explain that good behavior is essential; otherwise you’ll all have to leave the restaurant before having a chance to eat.
Step 3: Choose a restaurant wisely 明智的選擇飯店
Choose restaurants that accept reservations and seat guests promptly. Find out in advance if they provide kid-friendly food.
Avoid family restaurants if “family” is code for letting children run wild — being in that environment may inadvertently teach your kids that this is acceptable behavior at all eateries.
Step 4: Set limits 設(shè)定一些限制
Eat early. Keeping kids up past their bedtime is just asking for trouble. Try to keep the outing to no longer than 90 minutes by ordering promptly and having dessert and coffee at home. Longer than that, and kids are apt to get restless.
Step 5: Bring diversions 就餐時(shí)間增加娛樂(lè)活動(dòng)
Bring discreet diversions as well as special treats you can whip out to neutralize a tantrum. Include some finger food favorites in case your child gets fussy.
Offer young children a choice of two items on the menu; otherwise they might be overwhelmed by the selection.
Step 6: Respect other diners 尊重其他的用餐者
If your child is making a scene, take them outside until they calm down. If they can’t be quieted, get your food to go. And tip generously, especially if your child has made a big mess. If you don’t, neither you nor your child will be welcomed back!
According to one survey, 68 percent of childless people polled believe that families with young children should stay out of upscale restaurants.
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Rehearse
vt.1.安慰, 撫慰, 使舒服, 使平靜
I've managed to soothe him down a bit.
我想方設(shè)法使他平靜了一點(diǎn)。
2.減輕痛苦
This medicine should soothe your sore throat.
這種藥會(huì)減輕你的喉痛。
prompt
adj.1.立刻的, 迅速的, 準(zhǔn)時(shí)的
Prompt payment of bills is greatly appreciated.
如蒙即期結(jié)賬, 則不勝感激。
I can't understand it; he's usually very prompt.
我不明白這是怎么回事, 他通常很準(zhǔn)時(shí)的。
2.準(zhǔn)時(shí)到達(dá)的; 行動(dòng)迅速的
The company was prompt in its response to these accusations.
該公司對(duì)這些指責(zé)迅速做出反應(yīng)。
He's always prompt to criticize other people's ideas.
他對(duì)別人想出的主意總是迫不及待地進(jìn)行評(píng)價(jià)。
discreet
adj.1.(言行)謹(jǐn)慎的, 慎重的, 考慮周到的
I should make a few discreet enquiries about the firm before you sign anything.
我應(yīng)先審慎打探一下這家公司的底細(xì), 然后你再簽字。
He is very discreet in giving his opinions.
發(fā)表意見(jiàn)他十分慎重。
It wasn't discreet of you to ring me up at the office.
你打電話到我辦公室真是太魯莽了。
diversion
n.1.轉(zhuǎn)移, 轉(zhuǎn)向,偏離
High tariffs often cause a diversion of trade from one country to another.
高額關(guān)稅常使貿(mào)易從一國(guó)轉(zhuǎn)往另一國(guó)。
2.娛樂(lè), 消遣
Golf is my father's favourite diversion.
高爾夫球是我父親最喜歡的娛樂(lè)。