“我們對生活的態(tài)度決定了生活對我們的態(tài)度。” 我們都聽說過態(tài)度的力量,也知道正是我們的態(tài)度決定了我們在生命中會(huì)有多成功。
If you look around you, you will see that people with a positive attitude enjoy life more and are generally happier and more successful than those who walk around grumpy and pessimistic. Our attitude is the driving force in our lives—it can either push you to do great things or pull you down to your demise.
如果你看看周圍,你就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)那些以積極的態(tài)度享受生活的人們,比那些暴躁和悲觀的人更開心而且更成功。我們的態(tài)度是我們生命中的動(dòng)力——它可以推動(dòng)你做偉大的事情,也會(huì)把你帶向滅亡。
While it's true that humans are born with certain tendencies or orientations, our personalities and attitudes are developed through our relationships and experiences. Our attitudes begin to develop in childhood and constantly evolve and change over the years through day-to-day interactions and experiences.
然而,人類天生就有某些發(fā)展趨勢或方向,我們的個(gè)性和態(tài)度會(huì)隨著我們的人際關(guān)系和經(jīng)歷而不斷成熟。我們的看法從孩提時(shí)代開始,并多年來在每天的交往和經(jīng)歷中不斷地發(fā)展和改變。
All the things that you have been through, all the people you have met and interacted with can have an impact on your attitude. If you think that all these factors have molded you into a person with a poor attitude towards life, there is no need to worry as there is always an opportunity for change. Let me share with you how I did it.
你所經(jīng)歷的所有事情、所見過并打交道的所有的人會(huì)影響你的態(tài)度。如果你認(rèn)為這些所有的因素都讓你對生活有了消極態(tài)度,不要擔(dān)心,總有機(jī)會(huì)改變的。讓我與你分享一下我的做法。