三件壞事竟能成就你的事業(yè)

         3. Ruthlessness。

　　3.冷酷無情

　　Adding a bit of ruthlessness has, in just the right amount, been very helpful for me. It allows me to cut out the unnecessary instead of wimping around and trying to everything to fit in somehow. If you have problems with putting a stop to something or making decisions then a little bit more ruthlessness may be what you need。

　　多一點(diǎn)恰當(dāng)?shù)睦淇釋ξ曳浅Ｓ袔椭?。它讓我剔除了一些不必要的事，而不是猶猶豫豫，并試著以某種方式適應(yīng)它。如果你對停止做某些事或做某個(gè)決定感到困難，那么一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)的冷酷就是你所需要的。

　　Because at some point you have to make harder decisions and cut out stuff you may not want to. Otherwise you won’t be able to find the time and energy you need. This may mean to skip some social engagements or cutting down on the TV-shows you follow from 10 hours a week to 2 hours a week. Not always fun, but you have to be the boss of your life. You have to make the decisions and say no both to yourself and to others if necessary。

　　到了某些時(shí)候，你必須做出一些對你來說更困難的決定或是放棄一些你不想放棄的事，因?yàn)榉駝t你將無法騰出你所需要的時(shí)間和精力。這可能意味著，你將砍掉一些社會(huì)交際時(shí)間或是將每周花10小時(shí)看你所熱衷的TV秀減至每周2小時(shí)。這也許并不好過，但你是自己生活的主人。你必須做決定，如果需要，你要向自己或是別人說“不”。