雙語(yǔ)脫口秀《老外來(lái)了》:如何鑒別一個(gè)西方男生是不是“渣男”？

主播：Peter（英國(guó)） 翩翩（中國(guó)

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跨國(guó)戀系列2: How to pick a good man? 學(xué)會(huì)分辨“渣男”和“優(yōu)質(zhì)男”

How to tell this foreign man is worth your time & effort?不要讓年華白付，不要所托非人。

西方人眼中，什么樣的man才算是優(yōu)質(zhì)的呢？

The characteristics of good western man 首先要看性格

1. Is he considerate? 他體貼嗎？他考慮的周到嗎？

considerate 體貼的，考慮周到的

2. Is he independent? 他獨(dú)立嗎？

independent 獨(dú)立的

make their own decisions 自己做決定

a man baby = mama boy 媽寶男

rely on 依靠

You want someone who can make their own decisions. 你想要找一個(gè)能夠自己做決定的人。

Independent mentally，physically. 精神上和物質(zhì)上都要獨(dú)立，尤其是會(huì)cook哦?。臃郑?/p>

You don’t want a man baby. 你也不想找一個(gè)“媽寶男”吧？

3. Is he punctual? 他守時(shí)嗎？他有時(shí)間觀念嗎？

punctual 守時(shí)，on time

reliable 靠譜的，可信的

Being punctual is very important to westerners. 守時(shí)對(duì)外國(guó)人來(lái)說(shuō)是十分重要的！重要到可以直接用來(lái)判斷這個(gè)人是不是reliable，是不是優(yōu)質(zhì)男哦！

4. Does he have morals ＆ values? 他道德和價(jià)值觀怎么樣？

morals = ethic 道德，

values 價(jià)值觀

三觀正才是最重要的！

5. Does he treat people with respect? 他待人尊重嗎？

‘Please’， ‘thank you’ 嘴邊掛的才是have good manners的、有教養(yǎng)的優(yōu)質(zhì)男！

6. Does he get drunk every night? 他是流連于各種酒吧，夜夜買醉的loser嗎？

work with hangover 帶著宿醉工作

hangover 宿醉

Make sure the foreign guy doesn’t have hangover all the time. 要查看他是不是經(jīng)常宿醉！

7. Does he show up to work on time or do their best? 他工作努力嗎？

do one’s best = try very hard 盡力，努力

feature 品質(zhì)，特點(diǎn)

8. Does he integrate with the local community?

integrate 與……融合, mix with local people

9. How he treat you? 他對(duì)你怎么樣？

Does he pay you compliments? 他會(huì)夸獎(jiǎng)你嗎？

Does he listen to and is he interested in your opinions? 他會(huì)聽(tīng)你的建議或者對(duì)你的觀點(diǎn)感興趣嗎？

他會(huì)不會(huì)經(jīng)常問(wèn)： What do you think ?

10. What kind of relationship is he looking for? 他想要的是什么樣的關(guān)系？

Short term? Or something more serious? 短期的戀情？還是以結(jié)婚為目的的戀情？

Ladies! You are worth the time ＆ effort! You deserve the best!

姑娘們，如果你想冒險(xiǎn)試試“跨國(guó)戀”，請(qǐng)記住一席英語(yǔ)給你的建議，帶著照妖鏡，選一個(gè)正常男人，因?yàn)椋愕拿利惸耆A，值得最好的！