雙語(yǔ)脫口秀《老外來(lái)了》:跟老外無(wú)話可說(shuō)？學(xué)會(huì)這兩招，讓你輕松獲得跨國(guó)友誼！

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主播：Win（美國(guó)） 翩翩（中國(guó)）

令外國(guó)人尷尬的話題排行榜第2名

Do you think Chinese men/women are different from foreigners? （你覺(jué)得中國(guó)男人或女人跟外國(guó)人不同嗎？）

Why does it make foreigners awkward?

這個(gè)問(wèn)題為什么會(huì)讓外國(guó)人尷尬？

診斷：

問(wèn)題內(nèi)容沒(méi)有問(wèn)題，需要specify it問(wèn)題具體化，比如：

Howare they different in treating their husbands.

中西方女人對(duì)待老公方面有啥不同？

支招：可以用以下問(wèn)題問(wèn)，都會(huì)是非常好的聊天話題：

√In China，we have this tradition.Is there something like that in the West?

√In the west, are you comfortable with traditions like x,y,z…

總之，問(wèn)此類(lèi)文化類(lèi)問(wèn)題，不要太籠統(tǒng)，另對(duì)方無(wú)法回答

一定要記住兩步走：

1.Give an example舉個(gè)明確的例子

2.draw out the question拋出你的問(wèn)題

這樣就可以give them space to work with.

外國(guó)人會(huì)有可回答的空間。

令外國(guó)人尷尬的話題排行榜第3名：

Where are you from?

診斷：

This question itself is not awkward.

It’showyou respond when they answer.

問(wèn)題內(nèi)容沒(méi)有問(wèn)題，是我們的回答會(huì)令外國(guó)人尷尬。

支招：

哪里來(lái)的...這個(gè)話題其實(shí)特別好！

用以下的問(wèn)題來(lái)問(wèn)，會(huì)讓你們的聊天持久，關(guān)系親近：

√Would you like to tell me about your hometown? 你可以講講你家鄉(xiāng)嗎？

√What are some interesting places where you live? 你生活的家鄉(xiāng)，有什么有趣的地方？

√What is something interesting about your hometown that I might like? 你老家有啥好玩的？我可能會(huì)喜歡。

√Is there something interesting about your hometown that I might like?

與外國(guó)人交流時(shí)，一定要記得：

Don’t make assumptions, but ask questions!

少主觀臆斷，多問(wèn)細(xì)節(jié)問(wèn)題！

這一點(diǎn)做到，你的 social skill 一定會(huì)提高不少！