Kurt Cobain曾經(jīng)說過,比起讓別人喜歡虛偽的我,我寧愿讓別人討厭真實(shí)的我。事實(shí)上,你真實(shí)地做自己就好了,真正對(duì)你重要的人,他們不會(huì)因此討厭你。
Being real, being yourself is the greatest filter you could ever use. It instantly filters out all the people that don't belong with you. And at the same time, it reveals those who do. Bob Marley said, the only problem is people are being hated when they are real and loved when they are fake.
做真實(shí)的自己,是最好的過濾器。做真實(shí)的自己,那些和你志不同、道不合的人,就不會(huì)出現(xiàn)在你的生活里。同時(shí),與你志同道合的人,也會(huì)出現(xiàn)。Bob Marley說過,人們做真實(shí)的自己,會(huì)被討厭,而要是他們偽裝自己,卻會(huì)被喜歡,這就是問題所在。
It's true, but what is missed here is one very important fact. The people that are hating people being real are fake people. And the people that are loving fake people are the same fake people. Real recognizes real. Real recognizes fake. So who do you want to attract? Fake people or real people?
他說的沒錯(cuò),但是,還有一個(gè)很重要的事實(shí),那就是,虛偽的人,就是見不得別人真實(shí)的人,與此同時(shí),他們也喜歡虛偽的人。真實(shí)的人,能辨別出真實(shí)的人,也能辨別出虛偽的人。所以,你想吸引到什么樣的人?虛偽的人,還是真實(shí)的人?
Be yourself, and I promise you, eventually you will attract the right people. Be yourself. No matter what has happened to you, no matter who has hurt you, no matter what you believe, be yourself and be kind to others. If you do that, life will turn out far greater than you ever thought possible. If you don't, life will be painful.
做你自己吧,我保證,最終,你會(huì)吸引到對(duì)的人。做真實(shí)的自己。無論發(fā)生了什么,無論誰傷害了你,無論你的信仰是什么,你都要做真實(shí)的自己,同時(shí)要友善對(duì)待他人。如果你能這樣做,你的生活會(huì)變得很好,比你想象中的還要好。如果你做不到,你的生活就會(huì)變得很痛苦。
Because living a life with a mask on, you can't see. Living a life trying to fit in, you will never. Living a life trying to be someone else, so other people will like you, you might fit in on the outside, but inside you'll never be complete. You'll never be happy.
因?yàn)?,戴著面具生活,你就無法看清現(xiàn)實(shí)。如果你一直想融入別人,你就永遠(yuǎn)無法融入。如果你一直都想成為另一個(gè)人,好讓人們喜歡你,那么,表面上,可能你會(huì)融入他們,但是,你的內(nèi)心永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)完整,你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)快樂。
Repeat to yourself every day. I am different. That is why I win! I am unique, and that is why I am great. I'm not like anyone else on this planet. I am grateful for who I am becoming! I am grateful for who I am! I am committed to be myself and speak my truth and all times, and I know that is the only time the right people will show up in my life.
每天都要不停告訴自己,我與眾不同,所以我才是贏家!我很獨(dú)特,所以我很棒!我和世界上任何人都不一樣。我正在成為很棒的人,我非常感激!我對(duì)自己心懷感激!我會(huì)努力做我自己,一直堅(jiān)持為自己發(fā)聲,我知道,這樣做,對(duì)的人才會(huì)來到我身邊。
Those who are meant for me, will love and support and be real with the real me. I'm done with fake people, and that includes a fake version of me. I will stand tall and stand strong in my purpose, in everything that matters to me. I'm different. That is why I win!
那些注定要出現(xiàn)在我生活里的人,他們會(huì)愛真實(shí)的我,他們會(huì)支持真實(shí)的我,他們會(huì)真誠(chéng)對(duì)待真實(shí)的我。我受夠了虛偽的人,包括我虛偽的自己。為了追求我的夢(mèng)想,為了所有我在乎的事情,我會(huì)昂首挺胸,保持堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。我,與眾不同,所以我是贏家!