朋友對(duì)你的影響到底有多大？

1. Strong-willed friends can increase your self-control.

意志堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的朋友可以幫助提高你的自制力。

If you struggle to resist temptation, surrounding yourself with people who  possess a high degree of self-discipline can help. A 2013 study published in  Psychological Science reports that when people are running low on self-control,  they often seek out self-disciplined people to boost their willpower.

如果你在努力抵抗誘惑，交一些高度自律的朋友會(huì)對(duì)你有所幫助。2013年在《心理科學(xué)期刊》上發(fā)表的一項(xiàng)研究表明，當(dāng)人們自制力差的時(shí)候，他們通常會(huì)找一些自律的人來增強(qiáng)他們的意志力。

Since self-control is vital to reaching long-term goals, befriending people with willpower could be the secret to success. Whether you're   tempted to skip that workout at the gym, or you're considering blowing this  month's budget, spending time with a disciplined friend could boost your  motivation to maintain healthy habits.

因?yàn)樽灾屏?duì)達(dá)到長(zhǎng)期目標(biāo)非常重要，那么和意志力堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的人交朋友就是成功的秘訣。無論你是想在體育館里的健身活動(dòng)中偷懶，還是想揮霍掉這個(gè)月的預(yù)算費(fèi)用，和一個(gè)自律的朋友待在一起會(huì)激勵(lì)你去保持健康的習(xí)慣。

2. Fewer friends increases the likelihood you'll take financial risks.

朋友少容易產(chǎn)生財(cái)務(wù)風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。

When people lack adequate social interaction,  they're more likely to take bigger risks with money, according to a study  published in the June 2013 issue of Journal of Consumer Research. Researchers  discovered people who feel lonely or rejected were most likely to take the   biggest financial risks.

據(jù)《消費(fèi)者研究期刊》2013年六月份刊登的一項(xiàng)研究顯示，當(dāng)人們社交活動(dòng)少時(shí)，他們有可能承擔(dān)更大的財(cái)務(wù)風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。研究者發(fā)現(xiàn)感覺孤單或者感覺被否定的人很有可能會(huì)冒最大的財(cái)務(wù)風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。

Whether you're dealing with a recent breakup, a fallout with family, or a  failed business venture, be aware that your emotions could affect your spending  habits. Uncomfortable emotions can increase the chances that you'll behave  recklessly, which may have a negative impact on your bank account.

無論你是最近剛分手、或受家人影響、還是生意敗筆，你要知道情緒會(huì)影響消費(fèi)習(xí)慣。不安的情緒會(huì)使你魯莽行事，因而影響到你的銀行存款。

3. Too many social media connections can increase your stress level.

過度使用社交網(wǎng)絡(luò)會(huì)使你壓力增加。

When it comes to social media, "the more the merrier" may not be the best  approach. A report from the University of Edinburgh Business School says that  more Facebook friends means more stress. Researchers linked an abundance of social  media connections to increased anxiety about offending people.

“多多益善”并不適用于社交網(wǎng)絡(luò)。來自愛丁堡大學(xué)商學(xué)院的一份報(bào)告顯示：臉書上朋友越多，壓力越大。研究人員認(rèn)為大量的社交網(wǎng)絡(luò)活動(dòng)會(huì)使人過于擔(dān)心冒犯別人。

4. Close friends could be the secret to

longevity.

親密朋友是長(zhǎng)壽的秘訣。

When older adults have close confidants, they're likely to live longer,  according to a 2005 study conducted by Australia's Flinders University. After  following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a  large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22 percent.

據(jù)2005年澳大利亞弗林德斯大學(xué)做的研究表明，有密友的老年人很可能會(huì)長(zhǎng)壽。研究人員對(duì)1500人進(jìn)行了10年的跟蹤調(diào)查，發(fā)現(xiàn)朋友圈很廣的人會(huì)比其他老年人早逝幾率低22%。

5. Friends can greatly influence your choices.

朋友對(duì)你的選擇有很大影響。

A 2014 study published in the Journal of Consumer Research found that friends  often bond by providing one another withmoral support to resist a temptation.  However, friends also commonly conspire together to enjoyindulgences.  Researchers discovered that when it came to resisting temptations -- like eating  chocolate -- sometimes friends were more likely to become partners in crime as  they decided to indulge together.

2014年發(fā)表在《消費(fèi)者研究期刊》上的一項(xiàng)研究發(fā)現(xiàn)：朋友通常會(huì)給予彼此精神上的支持來抵抗誘惑。然而，朋友也會(huì)混在一起放縱。研究者發(fā)現(xiàn)相對(duì)于抵抗誘惑——比如說吃巧克力——有時(shí)朋友更可能廝混在一起成為共犯。

Your likely to start acting like the people you surround yourself with. Pick  friends who make poor choices, and you could get dragged down fast. But, if you  choose friends who inspire and challenge you to become better, you'll increase  your chances of reaching your goals.

你的行為有可能受身邊朋友的影響。如果你選擇的朋友總做出錯(cuò)誤的選擇，你也很快就會(huì)被拖累。但是，如果你選擇的朋友總是鼓舞你、挑戰(zhàn)你使你變得更好的話，你也更容易達(dá)到目標(biāo)。