A Good Listener 好的聆聽(tīng)者

Can you believe that a boy who is about 8 years old is the master of giving advice on love relationship? This funny incident happened in America. A little boy was doing his business on the street, he earned just one dollar each person. Of course, people did not come for advice, and all they needed was a good listener.

你能相信一個(gè)8歲左右的男孩是愛(ài)情專(zhuān)家么?這個(gè)有趣的事件發(fā)生在美國(guó)。一個(gè)小男孩正在街上做他的生意，他從每個(gè)客人身上得到一美元。當(dāng)然人們不是來(lái)聽(tīng)他的建議，他們需要的是一個(gè)忠實(shí)的聆聽(tīng)者。

Most people feel depressed today. In the public occasion, the powerful person is in charge of everything, who is the shinning star and enjoys to be followed by others. While most people have less chance to express themselves. Sometimes they need to listen to their inner voices, that’s why the little boy’s business is favored.

如今很多人都會(huì)有些抑郁。在公共場(chǎng)合，一些有頭有臉的人平時(shí)都是主管一切，是耀眼的明星，享受著別人的崇拜。然而大多數(shù)人都缺少訴說(shuō)情緒的機(jī)會(huì)。有時(shí)候他們也需要傾聽(tīng)自己內(nèi)心的聲音，這就是小男孩的生意受到青睞的原因。

To be a good listener can help us to learn things. Once a celebrity said that a good listener was not only popular everywhere, but after a while he also got to know something. When we learn to know how others feel about the same incident, we start to consider the way we deal with it. Am I too forced? Or do I forget others? So we can know better how to deal with things next time.

成為一個(gè)好的聆聽(tīng)者可以幫助我們學(xué)到一些東西。曾經(jīng)一個(gè)名人說(shuō)過(guò)，一個(gè)好的傾聽(tīng)者不僅是受歡迎的，一段時(shí)間后，他也學(xué)到了東西。當(dāng)我們慢慢知道不同的人對(duì)同一件事的不同看法，我們也會(huì)開(kāi)始考慮自己的處理方式是否得當(dāng)。我是不是太強(qiáng)勢(shì)了?或者我是否遺忘別的因素了?因此，我們可以知道下次如何把事情處理得更好。