單身是比較好的升值期 Single is The Best Time to Improve Yourself

Nowadays, many people are single in their twenties and they feel anxious as many people around them are married, they think they also should get married, especially for girls. Some of them choose to get married with the one seems suitable in a hurry, while some complain that there is no boy for them to fall in love and they will be single forever. They are wrong, because they do not realize the fact that single is the best time to improve yourself.

如今，很多二十多歲的人還是單身，他們因此而感到焦慮，因為他們身邊的大部分人都結(jié)婚了，他們覺得他們也應該結(jié)婚了，特別是女孩子。所有有一部分人就選擇與一個看似合適的對象匆忙結(jié)婚，有一部分則自怨自艾沒有男孩子給她們談戀愛，要注定孤獨終老。她們真的太錯了，因為她們沒看清楚這個事實，單是是最好的升值期。

First of all, when you are in the single status, you don’t need to take your time to your new family or take your boyfriend’s bad mood into consideration. You have control all your time. You can arrange it all for yourself. If you want to go to the gym, party, travel, make new friends or read books, you can do it. Or you want to master some new skills, then you can do it now, because you have time.

首先，在你單身的時候你不用花時間去處理這個新組建起來的家庭問題，也不用去考慮男朋友的情緒問題。你對自己的時間有著完全控制權。你可以為自己自由安排這些時間。如果你想去健身，去參加聚會，去旅游，去結(jié)交新朋友或者看書，就去吧。或者你想學習新技能，現(xiàn)在也可以去做了，因為你有的是時間。

Secondly, when you try to improve yourself and you actually do it, you will feel that you are a better person than before. So do the people around you. And when you are better, you will meet better people, then you may meet your Mr. Right. Besides, if you get improved, you will feel happier. You don’t need to self-denial or bow to the reality for now. You can take this chance to be a better person.

其次，當你試圖提升自我的時候，而且你也確實做了，你就會感到自己與之前的自己相比，好了很多。你周圍的人也會這樣覺得的。而且，當你變得更好的時候，你也會遇到更好的人，也許就認識了你的真命天子了。除此之外，如果你提升了自我，你也會更開心的。所以，現(xiàn)在你沒有必要進行自我否定或者屈服于現(xiàn)實。你可以抓住這次機會成為更好的人。