如何用英語(yǔ)開(kāi)啟和陌生人的聊天
人格測(cè)試把人分成內(nèi)向型和外向型,內(nèi)向型的人有時(shí)候會(huì)羨慕外向型人在很多場(chǎng)合能自如地與人打成一片。其實(shí)喜歡安靜并不是缺點(diǎn),而面對(duì)陌生人不敢輕易開(kāi)口更是很正常的感情,即便外向型人也需要技巧才能順利開(kāi)啟談話。今天我們來(lái)分享一些面對(duì)第一次見(jiàn)面的人的談話技巧,希望下次party中你能找到談得來(lái)的新朋友。
New Words
strike up 開(kāi)始演奏;開(kāi)始(交談),建立起(友誼等);
specialty adj. 特色的;專門(mén)的;獨(dú)立的;
How to Talk to A New Person
怎樣開(kāi)啟與陌生人的對(duì)話呢
Sometimes the hardest part of talking to people is figuring out how to start the conversation. This can be particularly intimidating when you want to talk to someone that you have not previously met. Here are some conversation starters:
有時(shí)候,與人交談中最困難的部分是如何開(kāi)始談話。當(dāng)你想和一個(gè)你此前從未見(jiàn)過(guò)的人交談時(shí),可能會(huì)特別膽怯。這里有些開(kāi)啟談話的妙方:
Make eye contact and offer a smile
確認(rèn)眼神+微笑
You need to find someone ‘available’. Making eye contact will lead you to the person who’s also willing to talk. And after you offer a smile, try to strike up a conversation.
首先,你需要找到一個(gè)“合適的”人。確認(rèn)過(guò)眼神可以讓你找到那個(gè)也愿意交談的人。微笑之后,試著開(kāi)始一段對(duì)話。
Find some common ground
找到共同話題
For example, when you are waiting in line at a coffee shop, you could say to the person in front of you, "What's good here? I've never tried any of their specialty drinks."
例如你在咖啡店排隊(duì)時(shí),你可以對(duì)前面的人說(shuō):“這里有什么好東西?我從來(lái)沒(méi)喝過(guò)他們的特色飲料。”
Comment on the situation
評(píng)論周?chē)闆r
If you are at a party, a good place to start a conversation is near the food table.Try saying, “Isn’t it a nice party?” or “The music is great, isn’t it?”
如果在聚會(huì)上,餐桌是個(gè)開(kāi)啟談話的好地方。可以說(shuō)“聚會(huì)不錯(cuò)哈?”或者“音樂(lè)很棒,不是嗎?”
Make a comment about the person
評(píng)論(贊美)一下Ta
With the person you want to talk to, you could say, "I really love that purse you're carrying."
你可以對(duì)你想聊天的人說(shuō),“我真的很喜歡你的包。”
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