畢業(yè)后，如何正視自己？

When you graduate, taking your first steps out of College or University into the big, bad world is, how to put it...a little bit messed up.

畢業(yè)的時(shí)候，你踏出大學(xué)校門(mén)，邁出第一步，走進(jìn)這個(gè)艱險(xiǎn)的大世界，怎么說(shuō)呢?有點(diǎn)點(diǎn)無(wú)所適從吧。

In the post-graduation transition, it's easy to feel lost and confused.

畢業(yè)之后的過(guò)渡期，很容易迷失自我、感到迷惘。

So here's how to remain confident and trust yourself, even in the middle of all the uncertainty and change that this brave new world brings.

這里教你如何保持自信、相信自己，哪怕你踟躕不前、要面臨這個(gè)日新月異的新世界。

1. Stop feeling like you should have all the answers

1、不要再覺(jué)得你應(yīng)該無(wú)所不知

Uncertainty is the way things are, and trying to fight is like trying to fight an angry bear with a wet fish. It’ll just leave you exhausted, scared and broken. So relax a little. Understand that uncertainty is natural, and know that doing your best is plenty good enough as a response.

事情就是不確定的，企圖斗爭(zhēng)好比和一頭怒熊抗衡、爭(zhēng)奪鮮魚(yú)。你只會(huì)精疲力竭、擔(dān)驚受怕、身心俱碎。放松一點(diǎn)，明白世事無(wú)常乃常態(tài)。要知道，盡最大努力這種做法本身就是不錯(cuò)的回應(yīng)。

2. Prioritise play over success

2、兩相權(quán)衡，游戲比成功重要

Extrinsic success is easy, cheap even. So it's through play—through engaging with the things that make you feel joy or connected and experience more success than fitting in with expectations will ever give you.

外在的成功來(lái)得容易、甚至可以說(shuō)來(lái)得廉價(jià)。所以說(shuō)，是通過(guò)游戲競(jìng)爭(zhēng)、去參與你覺(jué)得開(kāi)心和能帶動(dòng)你的事情， 去體驗(yàn)更多的成功，而不是去迎合外界帶給你的期冀。

3. Stop comparing

3、停止比較

Today, every time you compare yourself to someone else, you threaten to undermine your self and your efficacy, or inflate your ego. Comparison is irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is your ability to approach a decision.

如今，每次你與他人相較，你就有貶低自己、削弱自己效益的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)，甚至有自我膨脹的危險(xiǎn)。比較無(wú)甚相關(guān)，唯一相關(guān)的是你做決策的能力。