第十五課 人生苦短休斤斤
We men are imperfect beings, so conflicts among usare unavoidable.
我們?nèi)祟惤允遣煌昝赖脑煳铮员舜酥g必然會(huì)起爭(zhēng)執(zhí)。
Inevitably, we sometimes feel injured, insulted, orslighted.
無(wú)可避免地,我們有時(shí)會(huì)覺得受到傷害、侮辱或輕視。
Perhaps we put our faith in another, and weredisappointed; perhaps we felt we deserved one'sgratitude, and were denied;
也許我們?cè)湃文橙藚s失望了,也許我們?cè)X得應(yīng)該被某人感激卻遭拒絕,
perhaps we wished to join ourefforts to those of a group, and were rejected.
也許我們?cè)M餐瑸槟硤F(tuán)體打拼,卻被摒除于外。
Such experiences are painful indeed,but is it not foolish to let them occupy our thoughts andprecious time?
這樣的經(jīng)驗(yàn)的確很痛苦,但任由它們占據(jù)我們的思想與寶貴的時(shí)間豈不太愚蠢了嗎?
For what does it profit us to dwell on trivial matters?
因?yàn)樾臒┈嵥樾∈掠谖覀冇泻我嫣幠?
The priceless days must be spent meaningfully, joyfully.
寶貴的時(shí)光必須過得有意義且快樂。
How thoughtless to waste the irreplaceable hours reviewing insignificant incidents, bearing agrudge or pitying oneself!
把一去不回的時(shí)間浪費(fèi)在回顧微不足道的事,懷恨或自憐之上,這樣的做法是多么欠思慮啊!
Far better to embrace with gratitude the gift of each day to make the most of every momentby filling it with purpose or appreciation.
帶著感恩的心去擁抱上帝所賜的每一天—也就是要有目的或心存感激地充分利用每一分每一秒—這樣的做法才一更好。
Consider this thought when next you feel tempted to nurse a grievance: that life is too shortto be little!
下次你心生怨言時(shí),想想這一點(diǎn):“人生苦短休斤斤!”