他其實(shí)沒(méi)那么喜歡你 第83期:別做那個(gè)女孩

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A friend of mine was on a first date with a womanwho mentioned she was also dating a married man.

我一個(gè)朋友和一個(gè)女人第一次約會(huì)，她同時(shí)在和一個(gè)已婚男人約會(huì)。

He immediately told her there wouldn't be a seconddate, because if she didn't like herself enough to bein a proper relationship, why should he?

他馬上告訴她，不會(huì)有第二次見(jiàn)面，因?yàn)槿绻@么不自愛(ài)，不想好好談一場(chǎng)戀愛(ài)，他為什么要呢?

What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter

你應(yīng)從本章中學(xué)到什么

He's married.

他結(jié)婚了。

Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.

除非他是你的了，要不然他還是她的。

There are cool, loving single men in the world. Find one of them to go out with.

世上有不少可愛(ài)的單身好男人。跟他們其中一個(gè)出去約會(huì)。

If a guy is yelling about his ex-wife or crying over his last girlfriend, try to find someone else totake you to the movies.

如果一個(gè)家伙不停地在抱怨他的前妻，或哭著說(shuō)他的上一個(gè)女友，去找別人和你看電影吧。

He's married.

他結(jié)婚了。

Don't be that girl.

別做那個(gè)女孩。

You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.

你沒(méi)那么容易忘記。讓他準(zhǔn)備好了再來(lái)找你。

Our Super-Good Really Helpful Exercise

我們超級(jí)有用的練習(xí)

Think of at least five things you want or have ever wanted in a man. We'll wait...

列出至少五項(xiàng)你對(duì)一個(gè)男人所有的期待。我們會(huì)耐心等待…

Now, did "married" or "emotionally unavailable" make that list?

好，“已婚”或“情感上不可得”在單子上嗎?

Yeah, we didn't think so. You're far too classy and smart for that.

我們不認(rèn)為它在。你比這可要更有品位，也更聰明。