老外常聊的100個(gè)口語(yǔ)話題 08跨國(guó)婚戀

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dialogue 1

N: if you can choose, will you marry a foreigner or a Chinese?

如果讓你選的話，你是愿意嫁給一個(gè)中國(guó)人還是一個(gè)外國(guó)人?

S: why? Did tom pop the question?

為什么這么問(wèn)，湯姆向你求婚了嗎?

N: not yet. But I wonder if I can get my parents’ consent.

沒(méi)有，我怕父母不同意。

S: let me guess, your parents want you to marry a Chinese man, right?

我猜猜，你父母一定是想你嫁一個(gè)中國(guó)人，對(duì)嗎?

N: you are right. It is giving me a real headache. I feel like I’m between a rock and a hard place.

是啊，我正頭疼呢，我覺(jué)得左右為難。

S: I used to have the same problem when I was with my ex.

我和以前的男朋友談戀愛(ài)時(shí)，也遇到了同樣的問(wèn)題。

N: oh, how did you deal with it?

那你怎么解決的?

S: I just let it go and continued dating with my Korean boyfriend. But finally we broke up.

我就順其自然，繼續(xù)和我的韓國(guó)男朋友約會(huì)，但是后來(lái)我們還是分手了。

N: oh, it’s a pity. What was the matter?

太可惜了，為什么啊?

S: simple. We had personality clashes and there were too many cultural differences.

很簡(jiǎn)單，我們性格不合，雙方文化也有很多不同之處。

N: like what?

比如呢?

S: he hoped to live in the Korean way and asked me to give up working and stay at home to take care of the family.

他希望我過(guò)韓式的生活，要求我放棄工作，安心待在家里。

N: Oh, I see. In their culture women should put family first.

這樣啊，在他們的文化里，女性應(yīng)該以家庭為重。

S: yes, he said it would be batter for me and for the whole family. But I simply can not quit working.

是啊，他說(shuō)這樣對(duì)我，對(duì)整個(gè)家庭都好。但是我就是不想辭掉工作。

N: so that's why it’s hard to have a happy marriage with a foreigner.

所以和外國(guó)人結(jié)婚，很難幸福。

S: not really. There are many successful mixed marriage around us.

也不一定，我們周圍不也有很多成功的例子嘛。

dialogue 2

N: more and more Chinese are marrying foreigners.

越來(lái)越多的中國(guó)人嫁給了外國(guó)人。

S: that's true. But I have a low opinion of those women who go out with foreigners.

是啊，但是我挺鄙視那些和外國(guó)人在一起的女人的。

N: oh, why?

啊?為什么啊?

S: I think some Chinese wonem marry foreigners for money while others just want to live abroad. There is no true love between them.

我覺(jué)得有些人嫁給外國(guó)人是為了錢，有些人是為了去國(guó)外定居，反正他們之間沒(méi)有真愛(ài)。

N: I wouldn't say that's totally true. I've met many happy intercultural couples.

也不全是吧。我見(jiàn)過(guò)很多幸福的跨過(guò)夫妻。

S: well, then why aren't there many East-West couples where the man is a Chinese and the woman is a Westerner?

N: I guess it's because the Chinese women are more attractive to Western men.

那為什么沒(méi)有多少夫妻，男方是中國(guó)人，女方是外國(guó)人呢?

S: or because they are less attractive to to Chinese men.

可能是因?yàn)橹袊?guó)女人對(duì)外國(guó)男人更有吸引力吧。

N: what do you mean?

怎么說(shuō)?

S: you know, usually the woman is in her thirties and she is a left girl.

這些女人大約三十多歲，是剩女。

N: a left girl? What's that?

剩女?什么意思啊?

S: they're called that because they're left behind on the shelf. They're also known by their three H's---high diploma, high salary, and high degree.

這么說(shuō)，因?yàn)樗麄兪莿e人挑剩下的。她們有三高:高文憑，高工資，高學(xué)位。

N: and they're also known as the three S's—single, stuck, and born in the seventies.

還有人說(shuō)她們有三難:單身，高不成低不就，出生在70年代后。

S: definitely! So most of these women go for Western men.

的確!所以這些人就把目標(biāo)轉(zhuǎn)向了外國(guó)人。

N: you have a point here, but I believe some mixed marriages are based on true love.

也許吧。但是有些跨國(guó)婚姻還是有真愛(ài)的。

S: that' for sure but very few.

那是，不過(guò)很少。