Quora精選：哪些人生信條我們需謹(jǐn)記？

What are the most valuable things everyone should know?有哪些最重要的事情是每個(gè)人都必須知道的？

 

獲得1.3k好評(píng)的答案@Jordan B Peterson

Tell the truth.說實(shí)話。Do not do things that you hate.不要做自己討厭的事。Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient.追尋那些有意義的事，而不是有利益的事。If you have to choose, be the one who does things, instead of the one who is seen to do things.如果一定要做的話，就做個(gè)做實(shí)事的人，而不是被監(jiān)督時(shí)才能做事的人。Imagine who you could be, and then aim single-mindedly at that.想象一下你想要成為的那種人，然后一心一意地往那個(gè)方向努力。Do not allow yourself to become arrogant or resentful.不要讓自己變得自大傲慢或滿心怨恨。Work as hard as you possibly can on at least one thing and see what happens.在至少一件事情上盡可能的去努力，然后看看會(huì)發(fā)生什么。Dress like the person you want to be.像你想要成為的那個(gè)人一樣打扮。Be precise in your speech.謹(jǐn)言慎思。Do not transform your wife into a maid.不要把自己的妻子變成一個(gè)女仆。Be graceful in spite of your suffering.即使人生潦倒，也要保持優(yōu)雅。

 

獲得937好評(píng)的答案@Anuj Agarwal

1.You never really know how much the people around you are hurting.  You could be standing next to someone who is completely broken inside and you wouldn’t even know it.  So never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have. And remember that there are two ways to spread light in this world: You can either be a flame of hope, or a mirror that reflects it.  Be one of the two every chance you get.1.你永遠(yuǎn)也不知道身邊的人正在遭受怎樣的痛苦。你可能正站在他們身邊，可是你甚至不知道他們的內(nèi)心已經(jīng)支離破碎。所以永遠(yuǎn)不要?jiǎng)儕Z別人的希望，那可能是他們的所有。還要記住，有兩種方法能夠在這個(gè)世界傳播光明：你可以是希望之光，或者是反射希望之光的鏡子。只要有機(jī)會(huì)，就去成為兩者之一吧。2.The more you give, the more you receive is a universal truth that applies to way more than charitable giving. It literally applies to everything. It has been described as the boomerang effect and that term is very fitting because you literally get back everything you put out there. It doesn’t matter if it is kindness, generosity, love, anger, frustration, money, etc. It all comes right back to you.2.“你付出得越多，收獲得越多”不只適用于慈善捐獻(xiàn)，還是一句普遍真理，它確實(shí)適用于每件事。這被稱為“反向效應(yīng)”，相當(dāng)貼切，因?yàn)槟愦_實(shí)能夠收獲所有你付出的東西。無所謂它是什么，不論是好意、慷慨、愛心、怒火、挫折、金錢以及其他，最終都會(huì)回報(bào)與你。

 

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