Quora精選：一生中最重要的技能

What is the most valuable skill a person can have for their entire life?人的一生中最重要的的技能是什么？

獲得15.1k好評的答案@Abhishek Padmasale

The ability to express your thoughts.表達自己想法的能力。Seriously, I believe this is something most of us lack. It's extremely important for a person to learn to put into words, what he thinks. It makes a relationship last. It creates an impression on the person you're talking to. It gives you a chance to explore what others think about your ideas. It lets you answer questions on Quora in a way other people understand.說真的，我認為這是我們大部分人所缺乏的。對于一個人來說，學著用語言來表達自己的想法是非常重要的——這能讓一段關系維持下去，能讓和你說話的人產生一種印象，給你一個機會去探索別人對你的想法所抱有的看法，能讓你在Quora上以其他人能夠明白的方式回答問題。Although I'm no expert, I can say that you can always develop this skill simply by learning to talk without fear. Talk to a stranger, a fellow passenger on a train or your child-hood crush, they won't mind (I'm not sure about your crush, though). That way, you'll be forced to express your thoughts as clearly as possible. And that's exactly how you learn the art of expressing yourself and your ideas!盡管我不是專家，但是我能說你可以通過學會毫無畏懼地談話來鍛煉這個技能。去和陌生人、一起坐火車的乘客或者童年時的女神/男神交談，他們不會介意的（不過我不確定你的女神/男神介不介意）。這種方式能逼迫你盡可能地表達你的想法，而且這也確實能讓你學到表現(xiàn)自我和自己想法的藝術！So, go out, talk to someone. Unleash your mind. Express yourself!所以，走出門去和人交談，釋放你的內心，展現(xiàn)自我！

獲得5.7k好評的答案@Jon Mixon

The ability to tell a good story - If most people are honest, the people who they remember most in their lives are people who could tell them a great story. You are going to meet a lot of people in an average lifetime and while you'll forget most of them, you'll always remember the good storytellers.講好故事的能力——如果大部分人都做到誠實，那么在生活中，他們記得最牢的人是能給他們講個好故事的人。在一生中你會遇到許許多多的人，但是你會忘記他們之中的大部分，卻一直記住那些很會講故事的人。

獲得4.3k好評的答案@Abhinav Krishna

Self-Discipline自律The skill is to motivate oneself constantly and to never lose track of one's goals and to work constantly towards them. Mastering oneself is the key to achieving one's dreams and the only way one can master oneself is through self-discipline.這種技能就是不停地激勵自我、永遠不會迷失自己的目標并且不停地朝著目標努力。自我控制是實現(xiàn)夢想的關鍵，而自律是我們控制自我的唯一方式。

獲得3.4k好評的答案@Shruti Chopade

The ability to accept.接受的能力。Accept that life can't always be the way you want.接受那并不盡如人意的生活。Accept that everyone in the world can't behave the way you want them to.接受世界上每一個不按你希望來表現(xiàn)的人。Accept that you can't keep everyone happy.接受你無法取悅每一個人。Accept that unrealistic goals can never be achieved.接受不切實際的目標永遠無法實現(xiàn)。Accept that you can't change things which are not in your hands.接受你無法改變不為你掌握的事情。Accept that worrying won't do any good.接受擔心憂慮沒有任何好處。Accept that your happiness lies in your hands.接受你的幸福掌握在你自己手中。If we accept these, life will be much simpler.如果我們能接受這些，生活將會簡單得多。

 

(來源:滬江)