Quora精選：學(xué)點(diǎn)有用的心理學(xué)竅門

What psychological tricks and hacks are useful to know?了解什么心理學(xué)的小竅門很有用？

 

獲得381.4k好評(píng)的回答@Dhara Sonawane：

●If someone gives you an unsatisfactory answer to a question, stay quiet and keep eye contact and they’ll usually feel pressured to keep talking and reveal more.●如果有人對(duì)某個(gè)問(wèn)題的回答你不滿意，你不要說(shuō)話，保持眼神接觸，他們通常就能感受到你施加的壓力，會(huì)繼續(xù)說(shuō)下去，并多表達(dá)出一些想法?！馡f you feel someone is looking at you, try yawning and look around. If they yawn, you know they were looking at you.●如果你感覺(jué)某個(gè)人正在看你，你可以打個(gè)哈欠，看過(guò)去，如果那個(gè)人也打哈欠，你就知道的確是在看你了?！馮he best moments of the life, don't make it to social media.●生活中最美好的時(shí)刻不要發(fā)到社交媒體上?！馡f you want your friend to carry something, just keep talking to them while handing them the bag. Most people will automatically take the bag without thinking.●如果你想讓朋友拿東西，把包遞過(guò)去時(shí)一直跟他們說(shuō)話，大部分人會(huì)想都不想自動(dòng)把包接過(guò)去。●Have a makeover after end of relationship. And show off the new you.●結(jié)束一段戀情后要改頭換面，展現(xiàn)出全新的你。●Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that's the one that is going to help you grow.-Caroline Myss.●總要選擇你最怕的選項(xiàng)，那才是真正有助于你成長(zhǎng)的。-Caroline Myss●Pretending not to care is the habit of someone who generally cares the most.●通常最在乎的人習(xí)慣假裝不在乎?！馮he truth will never be more painful than discovering a lie.●發(fā)現(xiàn)謊言永遠(yuǎn)比真相更令人痛心。●Writing down negative thoughts and tossing them in a trash can is a psychological trick to improve your mood.●寫下消極的想法，然后扔進(jìn)垃圾桶，這是改善心情的心理學(xué)小竅門?！馚eing unable to get someone off your mind indicates that you are also on that person's mind.●不能把某個(gè)人清除出你的思想表明你也在那個(gè)人心上?！馡ntelligent people tend to have less friends than the average person. The smarter you are, the more selective you become.●智慧的人會(huì)比普通人朋友少，你越聰明，就越挑剔。●If someone can’t cry, he/she is weak.●不會(huì)哭的都是弱者?！馳our favorite song is probably favorite because you associate with an emotional event of your life.●某一首歌能成為你的最愛(ài)可能是因?yàn)槟惆阉湍闵钪心硞€(gè)情緒事件聯(lián)系起來(lái)了。●The person on your mind while you're unable to sleep is usually the person responsible for your happiness, pain.●失眠時(shí)想到的人通?？刂浦愕目鞓?lè)、痛苦?！馳ou appear more attractive to the other person when you make them smile or laugh.●你讓別人微笑或大笑時(shí)會(huì)更有魅力。●Women are likely to ask questions to things that they already know answers to. Be honest.●女性可能會(huì)問(wèn)她們已經(jīng)知道答案的問(wèn)題，所以你要誠(chéng)實(shí)。●The two most effective treatments for battling depression are exercise and spending time with the pets.●戰(zhàn)勝憂愁的兩個(gè)最有效方法是鍛煉和與寵物為伴?！馱hen your mood goes from happy to sad, most of the time; it’s because you're missing someone.●情緒從喜變憂時(shí)，大多數(shù)情況下都是因?yàn)槟阍谒寄钅硞€(gè)人。●The reason reverse psychology works, it because people don't like being told what to do.●逆反心理學(xué)很有效是因?yàn)槿藗兌疾幌矚g別人告訴他們?cè)撟鍪裁??！馱hen person cries and the first drop comes out of the right eye, its Happiness. Left eyes is pain. But both indicate frustration.●人們哭的時(shí)候，如果第一滴眼淚從右眼掉出來(lái)，那就是幸福的眼淚，左眼流出第一滴淚就是痛苦的眼淚，兩邊一起流說(shuō)明受挫了。

 

（翻譯：菲菲）

(來(lái)源:滬江)