Quora精選：怎樣成為一個(gè)更有魅力的男人？

What are some life hacks for a guy to look more handsome/attractive?有什么生活技巧能讓一個(gè)男人看上去更帥氣/迷人？

獲得3.8k好評的答案@James L Moyer

1) Clothes that fit. A few of us are gifted with dimensions that allow us to purchase straight off the rack. But most men (myself included) absolutely need to have custom-fitted clothing. Do this. Cut the number of clothes you buy in half. And double what you spend on each item. You will look great and feel great when your clothes fit perfectly.1）合身的衣服。我們中的少數(shù)人是天生衣架子，能夠直接買現(xiàn)成的衣服，但是大部分人（包括我自己）十分需要穿量身定做的衣服。這樣做吧，把你要買的衣服數(shù)量減半，然后每件衣服花雙倍的價(jià)格。當(dāng)你穿著超級合身的衣服時(shí)，你看起來會(huì)很棒，自己感覺也很棒。2) Assume everyone likes you. Take the lead when meeting people. Pretend you are a host or that you have the responsibility to help others enjoy themselves in a conversation. Most people are awkward or nervous in social situations, so if you take the pressure off of them, they'll love you for it and see you as more attractive.2）假定每個(gè)人都喜歡你。在和別人聚會(huì)的時(shí)候占據(jù)主動(dòng)，假裝你是主人或是你有責(zé)任幫助他人在談話中覺得盡興。大部分人在社交場合會(huì)笨手笨腳或是緊張，所以如果你讓他們減輕壓力，他們就會(huì)因此喜歡你，覺得你很迷人。3) Find a friend who always looks sharp. Ask them for tips for you.3）去找看起來總是很時(shí)髦的朋友，向他們討教技巧。4) Believe you are handsome. Confidence is attractive.4）相信自己很吸引人，有自信就是吸引人。Good luck!祝你好運(yùn)！

獲得455好評的答案@Cynth Chan

1. Carry your prop1、帶上你的道具。Book! Nothing beats a guy with a book. I really really really really like seeing a guy with a book resting near him. *Bonus point* - if he's actually reading it.書！拿著書的男人天下無敵。我非常非常非常非常喜歡看一個(gè)男人身邊擱著一本書的樣子。加分點(diǎn)——如果他確實(shí)在看這本書的話。Pet. I like seeing a guy who treats his pet well. They seem more attractive and make people assume they will actually be a good father someday.寵物。我喜歡看一個(gè)男人溫柔對待他家寵物的樣子。他們看起來更有魅力而且讓大家認(rèn)為他們將來一定會(huì)成為一個(gè)好爸爸。Scarf, sunglasses, beanie, coffee or anything that you think suits you best.圍巾、墨鏡、帽子、咖啡或任何你覺得最適合你的東西。2. Cleanliness is next to Godliness - Little things matter.2、清潔近乎神圣——小細(xì)節(jié)是關(guān)鍵。Trim your nails or at least keep them clean and tidy.修剪你的指甲，或者，至少保持干凈整潔。Teeth, this is so important. I secretly judge people's teeth when they talk. It's always nice to know when someone takes good care of their teeth. It gives an impression that they actually take care of themselves.牙齒，這太重要了。當(dāng)別人說話的時(shí)候我會(huì)悄悄地評判他們的牙齒。當(dāng)我知道這個(gè)人用心護(hù)理牙齒時(shí)，我會(huì)感覺很不錯(cuò)，這也給人以一種印象，他們實(shí)際上也很用心照顧自己。3. Learn how to cook?.3、學(xué)會(huì)煮飯。You don't have to cook like Gordon Ramsay or any Michelin chefs and we don't expect you to be like them either but it would be really great if you know how to cook something simple.你不需要像戈登·拉姆齊（英國頂級廚師）或米其林大廚那樣，我們也不指望你像他們一樣，但是如果你知道怎么煮一些簡單的菜式，那就真的很棒了。A study was carried out and revealed that women find men most sexy when they are working in the kitchen, NOT when carrying 'manly' tasks.有項(xiàng)研究表明女人覺得男人在廚房工作的時(shí)候最性感，而不是在做一些“有男人味”的事情的時(shí)候。

 

(來源:滬江)