Quora精選：?jiǎn)紊頃?huì)錯(cuò)過什么？狗已哭暈

What am I missing out on in life if I don't have a girlfriend?如果我不交女朋友，我會(huì)錯(cuò)過什么呢？

 

獲得12.5k好評(píng)的答案

Depends entirely on the girlfriend. Some things you might be missing out on:這完全取決于女朋友。你有可能會(huì)錯(cuò)過這些東西：Soft smells from her hair, her skin, her extra set of clothes that she leaves in your closet她發(fā)間傳來的清香、她特意留在你衣柜里的一套衣服Hugs, peekaboo-guess-who, kisses on the back of your neck when you're hard at work and forgot about the world around you for too long擁抱、蒙住你的眼睛讓你猜她是誰、當(dāng)你努力工作的時(shí)候從背后吻你的脖頸讓你久久不能記起周圍的一切Good cooking, or maybe good-morning coffee, or good takeout超棒的廚藝、或是早安咖啡、或是外帶便當(dāng)Inspiration, shared jokes, mind-bending middle-of-the-night discussions靈感、相互間的玩笑話、深夜里的交心談話An enthusiastic fan of your career, your writing, your sense of humor, your (terrible) saxophone playing, your pickup games of basketball on Saturday mornings對(duì)你的職業(yè)、寫作、幽默感、（糟糕的）薩克斯演奏和周六早上的街頭籃球賽都是充滿熱情的粉絲Stories of her life before you她和你交往之前的經(jīng)歷Someone to brag to, who loves listening to you brag她會(huì)朝你自夸，也會(huì)喜歡聽你自夸Whispered sweet nothings在耳邊甜蜜地低語A helper when you need a hand當(dāng)你需要時(shí)伸出的援助之手Tons of new experiences, new places to go, new foods to try, new friends to learn about, new authors and artists to consider, new lingerie to appreciate一大堆的新奇體驗(yàn)、探索新的地方、嘗試新的食物、結(jié)交新朋友、了解新的作者和藝術(shù)家、欣賞新的內(nèi)衣Someone to grow into and grow comfortable with能和你一起愉快地成長得更成熟的人Someone to tell secrets to... good ones and bad ones... without judgement能夠傾訴秘密的人……不管是好的還是壞的……還不帶任何批判Tickling撓癢癢Teasing開玩笑Phone calls when your boss isn't within earshot當(dāng)你老板不注意時(shí)打的電話Texts when your boss isn't looking當(dāng)你老板看不見時(shí)發(fā)的短信A hand to hold, and arms to hold you, when times are tough and you're not sure you can support your own weight any more當(dāng)生活困難而你不確定是否能繼續(xù)支撐自己時(shí)牽起的手、摟著你的臂膀A perspective very different from your own, but meltingly familiar一個(gè)和你完全不同卻融入骨血般熟悉的外表Massages按摩Caressing愛撫French kisses法式熱吻Spooning喂飯Someone to be insanely, animalistically, proud of at all times一個(gè)讓你瘋狂地、不顧一切地為之永遠(yuǎn)自豪的人Someone to be insanely, animalistically, protective of at all times一個(gè)讓你瘋狂地、不顧一切地永遠(yuǎn)保護(hù)的人Someone to be insane and animalistic with. At any time.一個(gè)讓你瘋狂地、不顧一切地永遠(yuǎn)在一起的人。

 

獲得1.9k好評(píng)的答案@Vivek Ramji

Nothing, mate! The grass is always greener on the other side. Single Men don't want to be single and attached men wish they were single again. Go out and enjoy life! Stop worrying about things that are not part of your life at the moment.什么都沒有，伙計(jì)！草永遠(yuǎn)是另一邊的更綠，花永遠(yuǎn)是別家的更香。單身男人不想單身，而有主的男人卻希望重回單身。出門去享受生活吧！別再操心這些事了，那又不是你目前生活的一部分。

 

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