Quora精選：丑小鴨也能變成白天鵝

Q: What does it feel like to go from physically unattractive to physically attractive?

問：從丑小鴨變成白天鵝的感覺是怎么樣的？

We've all heard the story of the ugly duckling who turns into a swan but does this actually happen in real life? Has anyone gone from ugly to pretty or I'll even take average to beautiful? What kind of reactions did you get from strangers before and after? How did it change you? Do you now take advantage of your looks?

我們都聽過丑小鴨變成白天鵝的故事，但是現(xiàn)實生活中真得會發(fā)生這樣的事情嗎？有沒有人從不好看變得好看，或者就從長相平平變得美麗動人的？這些轉(zhuǎn)變前后，路人們對你的態(tài)度有什么不一樣么？這給你帶來了怎樣的改變？你會利用自己的相貌嗎？

Answered by Lyndsey Scott

I feel as if I'm a pretty extreme case.

Picture of me from middle school:

我覺得我似乎就是一個非常極端的例子。這是我中學時的照片：

Picture of me in a Victoria's Secret Show:

這是我參加維多利亞的秘密內(nèi)衣秀的照片：

And backstage:

這是我在后臺接受采訪的照片：

I didn't technically start being bullied until my super awkward high school years where I all of a sudden found myself at 5'9" and 89 pounds. I'm still scouring my things for photos from during that time, but they seem to have disappeared somehow. :P

上高中的時候，我突然發(fā)覺自己長到了5英尺9英寸（約175厘米），體重89磅（約40公斤），在此之前，我并沒有真的因為外貌而受到欺負。我現(xiàn)在還在找我那個時候的照片呢，但它們似乎都不翼而飛了。 :P

It's been strange having people regard me at such extremes throughout the course of 15 or so years ... I was a late bloomer. Didn't really start looking like a model until after college. So it's been a rather jarring experience having people see and treat me the way they suddenly do now.

在過去的這大約15年之中，大家對待我的態(tài)度從一個極端走向了另一個極端，這讓我感覺很不舒服……我只是所謂的“大器晚成”而已。直到大學畢業(yè)，我看起來還沒什么模特的樣子呢。所以人們對于我的態(tài)度的突變，讓我頗感不爽。

I was bullied and often friendless throughout puberty because people automatically judged me as being someone I was not. OK, sure ... I'll admit that I've always been a nerd, but I like to think I'm a pretty cool nerd. The difference between then and now though is that back then, they wouldn't give me the chance to show them that I was kinda cool, and now they readily give me a chance ... and are then often disappointed that I'm kind of a nerd. ;)

青春期那會兒我經(jīng)常被欺負，因為他們總是自動把我劃分為另一種人。好吧，當然，我承認我那個時候總是一副呆呆的樣子，但是我覺得自己可是一個很酷的呆子。以前和現(xiàn)在的區(qū)別在于，那個時候，別人不會給我展示自己“瀟灑的一面”的機會，但是現(xiàn)在就不同了，他們總是很樂意欣賞我……然后常常會很失望的發(fā)現(xiàn)我有點呆。;)

Same is true now as it was then -- I (like everyone else I'm sure) am judged on sight. But it's nice to now have that perspective rare to the newly beautiful -- the world is a super shallow place, yes, but it's pointless to take their snap judgements too seriously because no one deserves to be treated differently based solely on their appearance.

唯一沒變的就是——人們總是以貌取人（我相信每個人都有與我類似的經(jīng)歷）。但對于現(xiàn)在這個好看的我來說，這種評判會好很多。是的，這個世界就是這么膚淺，但也不要太過在意這些倉促論斷，因為沒有一個人應(yīng)該因為外貌而受到差別對待。

The perks of being good looking: People offer me a lot more freebies, I make money off of my looks through modeling, strangers talk to me more often, more people listen to me and laugh at my jokes, and I even have the occasional suitor ... all good things.

長得好看的好處在于：人們會給我更多免費贈品，能夠通過做模特掙錢，時常被搭訕，更多的人愿意來做我的聽眾，并且我說笑話的時候還會很配合的大笑，我甚至偶爾還能被求求婚……總之就是好處多多。

On the other hand: Would-be catcallers will sometimes skip the compliments and just call me a bitch as I walk by, some women (although very few) are very catty to me from the get-go, and many people are shocked to find out that I'm anything other than an airhead ... that I was a comp. sci. major and that I program iOS apps, for example. Sometimes it all makes me very, very angry. Sometimes even a complimentary cat-call can make my blood boil. Sometimes I feel as if I have to prove myself now just as I felt I had to prove myself then. Can't catch a break, I guess. ;)

但也有些壞處：無論別人對我的評價如何，一些看不慣我的人只會在我路過時喊我“賤人”，有些女人（盡管很少），一開始就對我特別不友善。很多人在發(fā)現(xiàn)我并非一無是處的時候會很吃驚，比如，我主修計算機科學，開發(fā)過iOS平臺下的諸多應(yīng)用。有時候這一切都會讓我很抓狂。甚至一聲贊美的尖叫都會讓我熱血沸騰。我感到必須要去證明我自己，這種感覺無論是從前還是現(xiàn)在都很強烈。我想，生活似乎總是不會給我喘息的機會。

I clearly take advantage of my looks. I'm a model for pete's sake ... And in general, having beauty and intelligence is super useful during occasions that require me to assert a bit more authority. When I need to feel most powerful, I'll do my hair, throw on a nice outfit, put on a bit of makeup and it helps a disgusting amount. In general, I feel extremely lucky to have been granted this new super-power. But when I'm home and completely myself, when my hair is a mess, when I'm wearing my now broken glasses with the tape in the middle, and I'm up coding at 3 AM, I could give my middle-school self a major run for her money. I have to wonder, why didn't they like me then when I'm still the same person now? Why do they like me now? How do I know that they like me now? Does anyone actually really even like me now?

我當然會利用自己的相貌，拜托，我可是個模特。通常來說，當我想要維護自己的威信時，擁有美貌和智慧會很有用。而當我想讓自己極具影響力時，我會做個不錯的發(fā)型，穿上漂亮的套裝，化個淡妝，這些都大有裨益?？偟膩碚f，我很慶幸能被賦予這樣的“超能量”。但當我在家，自由自在的時候，當我蓬著頭發(fā)，戴著中間用膠布纏著的破眼鏡，寫代碼寫到凌晨三點時，我和中學時候的自己可以一爭高下。有時我不禁想，我仍舊是我，為什么以前大家不喜歡我，現(xiàn)在卻又喜歡？我怎樣才能知道他們是喜歡我的？現(xiàn)在真的有人喜歡我嗎？

Some things don't leave you.

有些東西始終都不會改變。