國(guó)外生存手冊(cè)：盤(pán)點(diǎn)與外國(guó)人的聊天大忌

Use last names with people you do not know:Address people using their title(Mr,Ms,Dr)and their last names。

對(duì)不認(rèn)識(shí)的人要稱(chēng)呼他們的姓：用他們的頭銜(先生、女士、博士等)加上他們的姓。

Always use"Ms"when addressing women:It is important to use"Ms"when addressing a woman.Only use"Mrs"when the woman has asked you to do so!

稱(chēng)呼女性的時(shí)候通常用“Ms”：稱(chēng)呼女性的時(shí)候用“Ms”，這很重要。如果對(duì)方要求你稱(chēng)呼“Mrs”那再照辦好了。

Many Americans prefer first names:Americans often prefer using first names,even when dealing with people in very different positions.Americans will generally say,"Call me Tom."and then expect you to remain on a first name basis。

很多人喜歡被叫名字：美國(guó)人通常喜歡用他們的名字，即使是和身份非常不同的人打交道。他們通常會(huì)說(shuō)，“叫我Tom”，然后真的希望你用他們的名字來(lái)稱(chēng)呼他們(不是客氣的哦)。

Americans prefer informal:In general,Americans prefer informal greetings and using first names or nicknames when speaking with colleagues and acquaintances。

美國(guó)人不拘小節(jié)：通常情況下，美國(guó)人喜歡非正式的問(wèn)候，提到他們的同事或者使用名字或者熟人的時(shí)候喜歡用昵稱(chēng)。

Always shake hands:Americans shake hands when greeting each other.This is true for both men and women.Other forms of greeting such as kissing on the cheeks,etc.,is generally not appreciated。

常握手：美國(guó)人相互致意的時(shí)候喜歡握手，這是男女通用的。其他的比如親吻臉頰之類(lèi)的方式是非常不推薦的。

Look your partner in the eye:Americans look each other in the eyes when they are speaking as a way of showing that they are sincere。

看對(duì)方的眼睛：美國(guó)人想要表達(dá)關(guān)注的時(shí)候會(huì)在說(shuō)話(huà)的時(shí)候看著對(duì)方的眼睛。

Americans have difficulties understanding foreign accents:Many Americans are not used to foreign accents.This requires patience from both of you!

美國(guó)人理解外國(guó)口音有困難：很多美國(guó)人不習(xí)慣外國(guó)口音，所以你們交談雙方都需要有耐心。

Talk about work:Americans commonly ask"What do you do­".It's not considered impolite(as in some countries)and is a popular topic of discussion between strangers。

談?wù)摴ぷ鳎好绹?guó)人通常會(huì)問(wèn)“What do you do­”在某些國(guó)家會(huì)被認(rèn)為這是不禮貌的，但美國(guó)不是的，這只是陌生人之間聊天的一個(gè)流行話(huà)題。

Don't hold hands:Same sex friends do not usually hold hands or put their arms around each other in public in the United States。

別拉手：在美國(guó)，同性朋友們?cè)诠矆?chǎng)合不太會(huì)手拉手或者挽住對(duì)方的胳膊。

Smoking is Out!!Smoking,even in public places,is strongly disapproved of by most Americans in the modern United States。

吸煙很老土!!在當(dāng)代的美國(guó)，吸煙，尤其是在公共場(chǎng)合吸煙，是非常不被大眾接受的行為。