與人打交道，最怕沒有底線

Trump Dismisses Tillerson, Nominates Pompeo for State

川普解雇蒂勒森并提名蓬佩奧擔(dān)任國務(wù)卿

President Donald Trump has dismissed U.S. Secretary of State Rex Tillerson.

川普總統(tǒng)已經(jīng)解除了國務(wù)卿蒂勒森的職務(wù)。

Trump announced the change in a message on the social media network Twitter early Tuesday. The announcement came four hours after Tillerson returned to Washington from a trip to Africa.

川普周二早些時(shí)候在社交媒體網(wǎng)站推特上宣布了這一消息，時(shí)間是在蒂勒森結(jié)束非洲之行回到華盛頓四個(gè)小時(shí)之后。

Trump said he would nominate Mike Pompeo, the director of the Central Intelligence Agency, to replace Tillerson. The move comes as the administration prepares for important talks with North Korea.

川普表示他將會(huì)提名中央情報(bào)局局長蓬佩奧接替蒂勒森的職務(wù)。此舉正值美國政府準(zhǔn)備與朝鮮進(jìn)行重要會(huì)談之際。

"Mike Pompeo, Director of the CIA, will become our new Secretary of State," Trump tweeted. "He will do a fantastic job! Thank you to Rex Tillerson for his service! Gina Haspel will become the new Director of the CIA, and the first woman so chosen. Congratulations to all!"

川普在推特中表示：“中央情報(bào)局局長蓬佩奧將成為我們的新任國務(wù)卿。他將會(huì)出色地完成這項(xiàng)工作。感謝蒂勒森為國效力!哈斯佩爾將成為中央情報(bào)局新任局長，這是首位出任這一職務(wù)的女性。祝賀大家!”

Both appointments must be confirmed by the Senate.

這兩項(xiàng)任命都必須得到參議院批準(zhǔn)。

Speaking this morning, the president said he and Tillerson "disagreed on things," including their opinions about the Iran nuclear deal.

在今天早上的發(fā)言中，川普表示，他和蒂勒森之間存在分歧，其中包括他們對(duì)伊朗核協(xié)議的看法。

For months, officials have spoken about Trump's dissatisfaction with Tillerson although Tillerson insisted he did not plan to leave.

有關(guān)官員數(shù)月來一直都在討論川普對(duì)蒂勒森的不滿，雖然蒂勒森堅(jiān)稱他不打算離開。

Rumors about disagreements between Trump and Tillerson began spreading last year.

關(guān)于川普和蒂勒森之間存在分歧的傳聞去年就開始發(fā)酵。

In October, NBC News reported that Tillerson called the president a "moron," something Tillerson never actually denied. Tillerson continued to insist his relationship with the president was solid and denied rumors of problems between them.

去年十月份，NBC新聞報(bào)道稱，蒂勒森稱川普是“白癡”，而蒂勒森從未站出來否認(rèn)。蒂勒森仍然堅(jiān)持他和總統(tǒng)的關(guān)系很牢固，并否認(rèn)了他們之間存在問題的傳言。

Two officials familiar with the situation said that Tillerson had been fired by Trump on Friday, while in Africa. However, that was not clear as Tillerson returned to Washington early Tuesday from Nigeria.

兩位熟知內(nèi)情的官員表示，蒂勒森周五還在非洲的時(shí)候就被川普解除了職務(wù)。但是，蒂勒森周二早上從尼日利亞返回華盛頓時(shí)，這一消息并未公布。

But Tillerson had cut short his trip by one night. He told reporters he had been sick in Africa and had not slept well because of urgent issues, including the North Korea announcement.

但是蒂勒森將他的行程縮短了一個(gè)晚上。他對(duì)記者表示，他在非洲生病了，并且因?yàn)槌r公告之類的緊急事務(wù)，他一直沒睡好。

"I felt like, look, I just need to get back," Tillerson said.

蒂勒森表示：“我覺得就是該回來了。”

One top Trump administration official said dismissing Tillerson had been discussed at many levels for a long time. The official said the situation with North Korea and the invitation to meet brought more urgency to the decision.

川普政府一位高級(jí)官員表示，長期以來解雇蒂勒森在多個(gè)層面進(jìn)行過討論。這位官員表示，朝鮮局勢與會(huì)晤邀請給這項(xiàng)決定帶來了更大的緊迫感。

Two officials said Trump wanted to have a new team in place before the meeting with North Korean leader Kim Jong Un and also before trade talks.

兩位官員表示，川普希望在會(huì)見朝鮮領(lǐng)導(dǎo)人金正恩以及貿(mào)易談判前組建一個(gè)新的團(tuán)隊(duì)。

The officials were not authorized to speak publicly and demanded that their names not be released.

這些官員未被授權(quán)進(jìn)行公開評(píng)論，他們要求匿名。

Tillerson also was known for his ties with Russia and Russian President Vladimir Putin. He developed the ties as an executive for U.S. oil company Exxon.

蒂勒森還因?yàn)橥砹_斯總統(tǒng)普京的關(guān)系而聞名。他在擔(dān)任美國?？松梨谑凸緢?zhí)行官的時(shí)候跟普京結(jié)緣。

Tillerson joined a long list of senior officials who have either resigned or been fired since Trump took office in January 2017.

蒂勒森加入了2017年1月川普就職以來辭職或被解雇的一系列高級(jí)官員的名單。

Others include strategist Steve Bannon, national security adviser Michael Flynn, FBI Director James Comey, White House chief of staff Reince Priebus, communications director Anthony Scaramucci, and press secretary Sean Spicer.

其他人包括戰(zhàn)略顧問班農(nóng)、國家安全顧問弗林、聯(lián)邦調(diào)查局局長科米、白宮辦公廳主任普里布斯、白宮通訊主管斯卡拉姆奇和白宮新聞秘書斯派塞。

Recently, staff secretary Rob Porter, communications director Hope Hicks and economic adviser Gary Cohn have resigned from the administration.

最近，白宮秘書波特、白通訊主管?？怂挂约敖?jīng)濟(jì)顧問科恩也已經(jīng)辭去公職。

I'm Mario Ritter.

馬里奧·利特報(bào)道。

The worst thing you can encounter when you interact with people is your own lack of a base line.

人際交往中最不能做的第一件事，就是沒有底線。

No matter who you are interacting with, be it your family, your friend or strangers, you should know:

無論你是和親人、朋友還是陌生人打交道，你都應(yīng)該明白：

1. You have your own boundaries which others have no right to pass unless you authorize them to.

你有自己的權(quán)力邊界，這是別人不能夠侵犯的。

2. What you do is your own business. And you are the one who decides how to do them.

你的事就是你的事，它們的最終決定權(quán)在你。

3. What others do is their own business. If you don't want to help, you have the right not to.

別人的事就是別人的事，如果你不想幫忙，那你就可以不幫忙。

There is no need in maintaining all those pointless relationships and making yourself miserable.

你沒有必要委屈自己去維護(hù)太多無意義的關(guān)系。

You don't need to please everyone.

你沒有必要去討好所有人。

Your energy is limited.

一個(gè)人的精力是有限的。

And it's impossible to get along with everyone.

一個(gè)人也不可能和所有人都保持融洽。

This is life. It may not be the life that we imagine our lives should be like. But it's the true life that we have to live.

這就是人生，它可能不是大多數(shù)人想象中的那個(gè)“應(yīng)該的人生”，它是那個(gè)“現(xiàn)實(shí)的人生”。