"年夜飯分手"引熱議

連日來，朋友圈被一頓江西的年夜飯刷屏了。事情很簡(jiǎn)單，就是一上海姑娘跟著江西男友回農(nóng)村老家過年，在見到男方家里的第一頓飯后就決定分手了。事件發(fā)生后，網(wǎng)友針對(duì)此事的討論持續(xù)發(fā)酵，雙方展開激烈辯論，有人批評(píng)女孩沒教養(yǎng)，嫌貧愛富，過于拜金;也有人指責(zé)男方是“鳳凰男”，自己沒本事給女朋友過上好日子，還想“攀高枝”。

上海女孩拍下江西男友家的晚餐

外媒如何說“分手”：

One particularly picky young woman dumped her boyfriend of a year after being served food at his parents' house which she considered to be 'too humble' for her tastes.

一位特別挑剔的年輕女性在見到男方家里的第一頓飯后，覺得實(shí)在難以下咽，決定與相戀一年的男友分手。

Upon seeing the dishes the parents - who are from Jiangxi province, southeast China had served up, the comparatively wealthy woman from Shanghai said she was 'shocked' and decided it was time to call it a day on their relationship.

在見到男方父母做的這頓飯后，這位家境相對(duì)富裕的上海女子說自己“一去嚇一跳”，遂決定與男友分手。男方老家位于中國(guó)江西省。

原帖是這樣說的：

'I was bred in Shanghai and was born in 1988... My family is well off.'

樓主正宗上海人，88年……家庭小康。

'I have a boyfriend and have been dating him for a year. He comes from elsewhere [other than Shanghai]. He's good at working and has the looks that I like. But he doesn't have a good financial background.'

談了個(gè)朋友，有一年了，是外地的，人工作能力蠻強(qiáng)，賣相是我喜歡的那種，但是沒有家底。

'When I saw their food, I wanted to throw up. It was 100 times worse than what I had imagined. I can't accept it. I can't leave now, there is no transport. I will share a room with his sister tonight and leave the next morning.'

一看到這個(gè)飯菜我真的想吐了。。。比我想象的要差一百倍，我接受不了。現(xiàn)在肯定沒法走，沒交通工具了，我和他妹妹睡，明天一早我就走。

網(wǎng)友正反方PK：

After her post went viral online, the woman surprisingly received support for her plight from some quarters, with many saying she was not expecting too much.

貼子在網(wǎng)上流傳后，一些網(wǎng)友對(duì)這位女性的處境表達(dá)了理解和支持，許多人表示她的要求并不過分。

'I can truly understand her. She made the right choice. I got married this year. My husband comes from rural Hunan, I come from Harbin.'--- one Weibo commenter said.

微博用戶：“我特別理解她，她做出了正確的決定。我今年結(jié)的婚，丈夫來自湖南農(nóng)村，我來自哈爾濱。

'This year, after I had the Chinese New Year's meal at my mother-in-law's house, I cried… If I hadn't got married, I would certainly break up.'

今年在婆家吃過年夜飯后，我哭了……如果還沒結(jié)婚我肯定會(huì)分手。”

但也有人表達(dá)了相反的觀點(diǎn)：

'You're marrying him, not his family's food. If you don't like you can break up with him, but why did you send a post to insult the others.'

“你嫁的是他這個(gè)人，又不是他家的飯。如果你不喜歡可以分手，干嘛要發(fā)張照片侮辱對(duì)方?”

'Although the meal might not look good to you, but his parents might have waited for a year to prepare this for you. They wanted to welcome you.'

“盡管你看不上這頓飯，但也許男方父母為這頓飯等了一年。他們歡迎你的到來。”