群聊時(shí)如何“插嘴”（一）

課堂討論時(shí)，公司開(kāi)會(huì)brainstorming時(shí)，同學(xué)聚會(huì)爭(zhēng)論某個(gè)問(wèn)題時(shí)，都需要我們適時(shí)表達(dá)自己的意見(jiàn)。怎么樣表達(dá)才能讓別人聽(tīng)到并注意到呢?今天，我們就來(lái)說(shuō)一說(shuō)表達(dá)意見(jiàn)的不同方式。

1. 表達(dá)自己意見(jiàn)

I think that... 我認(rèn)為... (最簡(jiǎn)單的表達(dá)，也最直接)

It seems to me that... 在我看來(lái)... (可以用作表達(dá)意見(jiàn)，或者總結(jié)或者認(rèn)可對(duì)方說(shuō)的話)

I would argue that...我是這么看的... (這里面用would來(lái)弱化語(yǔ)氣)

Just to go along with what you said... 順著你剛才說(shuō)的，... (這句話，真的很好用，承上啟下。這句話還好在，它使你現(xiàn)在插話看上去很合理，因?yàn)槟闶菫榱隧樦懊娴哪莻€(gè)人繼續(xù)說(shuō))

Going back to what xxx said... 回到剛才XXX說(shuō)的，... (同上。不過(guò)一般是你已經(jīng)說(shuō)了幾句，此事，想要與別人剛剛提到過(guò)或者蜻蜓點(diǎn)水說(shuō)的的東西扯上點(diǎn)關(guān)系。這句話的好處就是，一能讓別人看到我的說(shuō)法和你是有一致之處的， 二能表現(xiàn)他剛才說(shuō)的東西你還有印象)

2. 同意或者反對(duì)

I agree with you. 我同意你說(shuō)的。(最簡(jiǎn)單的)

Building on what XX has just said, ....就剛才XXX說(shuō)的，...

I am with you..., but [main point]. 我明白你的意思，不過(guò)... (這里I am with you不一定表示同意也不一定表示反對(duì)，它主要的意思是說(shuō)"你說(shuō)的我聽(tīng)懂了/我跟上你說(shuō)的了)

I follow your logic, but have you thought about/considered this... [main point]...? 你說(shuō)的我明白了，但是你有沒(méi)有想過(guò)...(和上面一句話的邏輯是一樣的)

I see what you are saying, but I'm not sure I would argue that... 我明白你的意思，不過(guò)我不確定我的觀點(diǎn)與你一致... (和上面兩句話的邏輯一樣)

With all due respect, I think... 恕我直言，我認(rèn)為...

3. 謙虛的反對(duì)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't [a different topic]...? 如果我說(shuō)錯(cuò)了，請(qǐng)你們指正，不過(guò)是不是...?

I'm not an expert on..., it seems to me that... 我在這方面是外行，在我看來(lái)...

I might be wrong, but ... 可能我理解錯(cuò)了，不過(guò)...

I suspect that I lack some information about this aspect, but here is my two cents. 可能我對(duì)這方面的信息了解不夠充分，我的看法是...

I am not sure about this..., you might want to check with Professor X... Would you mind letting me know what he/she says? 這個(gè)我不太確定，或許你可以找XX教授確認(rèn)一下。到時(shí)候麻煩你告訴我一下他是怎么說(shuō)的，可以嗎?

This is one way to look at it. Another way to look at it might be.... 你這是一種看法，我另外還有一種看法是...(這句話通常在別人說(shuō)了一堆之后，為了引出自己的觀點(diǎn)時(shí)使用)