艾莉森·霍爾克在失戀后“不回避”約會(huì):“愛(ài)是我一直相信的東西”

Allison Holker Boss isn't closed off to finding love in the wake of her late husband Stephen "tWitch" Boss' death.
Allison Holker Boss在她已故的丈夫Stephen“tWitch”Boss去世后并沒(méi)有關(guān)閉尋找愛(ài)情的大門(mén)。

On Thursday's episode of Nick Viall's The Viall Files podcast, the So You Think You Can Dance alum, 35, acknowledged that her love life has become a "hot topic" after her husband's death in December 2022.
在周四尼克·維爾的《維爾檔案》播客節(jié)目中，這位35歲的舞林高手承認(rèn)，在她丈夫于2022年12月去世后，她的愛(ài)情生活成為了一個(gè)“熱門(mén)話(huà)題”。

As she continued to grieve and work through her emotions, Allison said she needed to "learn to love myself," but also find answers as to whether or not she could "like someone else again."
艾莉森說(shuō)，當(dāng)她繼續(xù)悲傷，努力克服自己的情緒時(shí)，她需要“學(xué)會(huì)愛(ài)自己”，但也要找到自己是否能“再次喜歡上別人”的答案。

When that question seemed like a real possibility, the professional dancer said she then wondered if she could "love someone else again while I still like someone and love someone else."
當(dāng)這個(gè)問(wèn)題似乎真的有可能出現(xiàn)時(shí)，這位職業(yè)舞者說(shuō)，她想知道她是否能“在我還喜歡一個(gè)人、愛(ài)著另一個(gè)人的時(shí)候，再次愛(ài)上另一個(gè)人”。

"It's a very complex situation I found myself in," she told host Nick Viall, noting that her outlook on life made it harder for her come to terms with moving forward. "It took me a long time to accept all of those things and those complexities of everything. But at the end of the day, I love life. So would I shy away from it?"
“我發(fā)現(xiàn)自己處在一個(gè)非常復(fù)雜的境地，”她告訴主持人尼克·維爾，并指出她的人生觀(guān)讓她更難接受前進(jìn)。“我花了很長(zhǎng)時(shí)間才接受所有這些事情以及所有事情的復(fù)雜性。但歸根結(jié)底，我熱愛(ài)生活。所以我會(huì)回避它嗎?”

Though she isn't actively searching for someone special, Allison explained that she was a "lover of life and experience and adventure."
雖然她并沒(méi)有積極尋找特別的人，但艾莉森解釋說(shuō)她是一個(gè)“熱愛(ài)生活、體驗(yàn)和冒險(xiǎn)的人”。

"I still find that the world is such a beautiful place and there's so much to be experienced. So to what kind of capacity? What that looks like? I don't know. But I'm definitely not shying away from it," she explained. "It's just, life to me is life, and I just think it's here to be experienced."
“我仍然覺(jué)得世界是一個(gè)美麗的地方，有那么多值得體驗(yàn)的東西。那么要什么樣的容量呢?那是什么樣子的?我不知道。但我絕對(duì)不會(huì)回避它，”她解釋道。“對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，生活就是生活，我只是覺(jué)得它是用來(lái)體驗(yàn)的。”

"Life and love is just something that I've always believed in," she added.
“生活和愛(ài)情是我一直相信的東西，”她補(bǔ)充道。

While Allison doesn't want to close herself off to any possibilities, she confessed she "had so many dark spaces I was in, that I had to be in for so many different reasons, and I had to work through all these different processes of all these different things."
雖然艾莉森不想把自己封閉在任何可能性之外，但她承認(rèn)自己“有很多黑暗的空間，我必須因?yàn)楹芏嗖煌脑蚨M(jìn)入，我必須經(jīng)歷所有這些不同的過(guò)程，處理所有這些不同的事情。”

"But, I have," she confirmed. "I've worked through 'em ... you know, we'll see what happens."
“但是，我有，”她肯定地說(shuō)。“我已經(jīng)熬過(guò)了……你知道，我們會(huì)看到會(huì)發(fā)生什么。”