張恨水先生曾寫過一篇《為人應(yīng)當接受批評》,他說:“生平很少和人打筆墨官司,就是人家指出我的名姓來教訓一頓,我也不曾回復(fù)一個字。這樣做,我并非怯懦,也并非過分的容忍。我有個感想,我錯了,止謗莫如自修。我不錯,最好借事實來答復(fù)。這是一個辦法,也許不適合他人,但至少我自己,在做人上糾正了不少錯誤。而三十年來的寫作生涯,略有寸進,一大半也就是根據(jù)別人的批評而得的。” 恨水先生對待批評的態(tài)度,很值得當今文化人學習。
There is no better way to stop critiques by improving yourself
Mr. Henshui Zhang has written an article We should accept critiques. He says in the article: “I rarely argue with people on paper. Even if they specify my name to give me lessons, I had never replied. I am neither being a coward nor putting up with it by doing that. I come to the point that, if I am wrong, there is no better way to stop the critiques by improving myself; if I wasn't, then the truth will show it. This is a way, it might not be the way for others, but it is for me. It helped me made many wrongs right when conducting myself (/to be a man). To add to that, my thirty years of writing, good or bad, also largely depends on other people’s critiques. Mr. Zhang’s attitude towards critiques is really worth learning from.