Excellence Is Not an Act, but a Habit
Our character, basically, is a composite of our habits. “Sow a thought, reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny,” the maxim goes.
Habits are powerful factors in our lives. Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character and produce our effectiveness or ineffectiveness.
As Horace Mann, the great educator, once said, “habits are like a cable. We weave a strand of it everyday and soon it cannot be broken.” I personally do not agree with the last part of his expression. I know habits can be learned and unlearned. But is also known it isn’t a quick fix. It involves a process and a tremendous commitment.
Those of us who watched the lunar voyage of Apollo 11 were transfixed as we saw the first men walk on the moon and return to earth. But to get there, those astronauts literally had to break out of the tremendous gravity pull of the earth. More energy was spent in the first few minutes of lift-off, in the first few miles of travel, than was used over the next several days to travel half a million miles.
Habits, too, have tremendous gravity pull- more than most people realize or would admit. Breaking deeply imbedded habitual tendencies such as procrastination, impatience, criticalness, or selfishness that violate basic principles of human effectiveness involves more than a little willpower and a few minor changes in our lives. “Lift off” takes a tremendous effort, but once we break out of the gravity pull, our freedom takes on a whole new dimension.
Like any natural force, gravity pull can work with us or against us. The gravity pull of some of our habits may currently be keeping us from going where we want to go. But it is also gravity pull that keeps our world together, that keeps the planets in their orbits and our universe in order. It is a powerful force, and if we use it effectively, we can use the gravity pull of habit to create the cohesiveness and order necessary to establish effectiveness in our lives.
卓越并非行為,而是習(xí)慣
人的品德基本上是又習(xí)慣組成的。 俗語(yǔ)說;思想決定行動(dòng),行動(dòng)決定習(xí)慣,習(xí)慣決定品德,品德決定命運(yùn)。
習(xí)慣對(duì)我們的生活有絕大的影響,因?yàn)樗且回灥摹?在不知不覺中, 經(jīng)年累月影響著我們的品德,暴露出我們的本性,左右著我們的成敗。
美國(guó)著名教育家曼恩曾說:“習(xí)慣就仿佛是一條纜繩,我們每天為他纏上一股新索,不要多久就會(huì)變得牢不可破。”這句話的后半段我不敢茍同,我相信習(xí)慣可以養(yǎng)成,也可以打破,但絕不是一蹴而就,而是需要長(zhǎng)期的努力和無比的毅力。
宇航員搭乘阿波羅11號(hào)太空船,首次登陸月球的剎那,的確令人嘆為觀止。但宇航員得先擺脫地球強(qiáng)大的引力,才能飛往月球。由此在剛發(fā)射的幾分鐘,也就是整個(gè)任務(wù)一開始的幾英里之內(nèi),是最艱難的時(shí)刻,所耗的力量往往超越往后的幾十萬英里。
習(xí)慣也是一樣,它具有極大的引力,只是許多人不加注意或不肯承認(rèn)了。想要革除因循茍且,缺乏耐心,吹毛求疵或自私自利等不良習(xí)性,若是缺乏意志力,不能大刀闊斧的改革,便難以實(shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)。“起飛”需要極大的努力,然而一旦脫離重力的牽絆,我們便可享受前所未有的自由。
習(xí)慣的引力就如同自然界所有的力量一般,可以為我們所用,也可能危害我們,關(guān)鍵看我們?nèi)绾芜\(yùn)用。不過,習(xí)慣或許一時(shí)有礙于達(dá)到目標(biāo),但也有積極的一面。 宇宙萬物各循軌道運(yùn)行,彼此保持一定的秩序,畢竟也都有賴于引力的作用。所以只要我們善于運(yùn)用習(xí)慣的龐大引力,就能使生活有重心,有秩序,有效率。