感悟人生-Unit 01 I Try to Remember 處世良言記在心
1. Everybody doesn’t have to love me．無須人人都愛我
Not everyone has to love me or even like me. I don’t necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved，but if somebody doesn’t like me, 1 will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person. I cannot make some-body like me anymore than someone can get me to like them. I don't need approval all the time. If someone does not approve of me. 1 will still be okay.
2.It is okay to make mistakes．犯錯誤沒什么大不了的
Making mistakes is something we all do, and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them. There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake. I am trying，and if I make a mistake, I am going to continue trying. I can handle making a mistake. it is okay for others to make a mistakes too. I will accept my mistakes and also the mistakes that others make.
3.Other people are okay and I am okay.互相尊重
People who do things that I don’t like are not necessarily bad people. They should not necessarily be punished just because I don’t like what they do or did. There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be. People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be. I cannot control other people or change them. They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect.
4.I don’t have to control things．
I will survive if things are different than what 1 want them to be. I can accept things the way they are, accept people the way they are, and accept myself the way I am. There is no reason to get upset if I can’t change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be. There is no reason why I should have to like everything. Even if I don’t like it, I can live with it.
5.I am responsible for my day
I am responsible for how I feel and what I do. Nobody can make me feel anything. If I have a rotten day. I am the one who allowed it to be that way. If I have a great day, l am the one who deserves credit for being positive. It is not the responsibility of other people to change so that I can feel better. I am the one who is in charge of my life.
6.I can handle it when things go wrong．
I don’t need to watch out for things to go wrong. They usually go just fine，and when they don’t．I can handle it. I don’t have to waste energy worrying. The sky won’t fall in things will beokay.
7.It is important to try
I can．Even though I may be faced with difficult tasks, it is better to try than to avoid them. Avoiding a task does not give me any opportunities for success or joy, but trying does. Things worth having are worth the effort. I might not be able to do everything. But I can do something.
8.I am capable．
I don’t need someone else to take care of my problems. I am capable. I can take dare of myself. I can make decisions for myself. I can think for myself. I don’t have to depend on somebody else to take care of me.
9.I can change.
I don’t have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past. Every day is a new day. It's silly to think I can’t help being the way I am. Of course I can. I can change.
10.Other people are capable.
I can't solve other people's problems for them. I don't have to take on other people's problems as if they were my own. I don't need to change other people for fix up their lives. They are capable and can take care of themselves, and can solve their own problems. I can care and be of some help, but I can't do anything for them.
11 I can be flexible
There is more than one way to do something. More than one person has had good ideas that will work. There is no one and only”best”way. Everybody has ideas that are worthwhile. Some may make more sense to me than others, but everyone’s ideas are worthwhile, and everyone has something worthwhile to contribute.
