來自64000名女性的調(diào)查：女人到底想要什么樣的伴侶?

來自64000名女性的調(diào)查：女人到底想要什么樣的伴侶?

Countless books, websites, articles and movies have been dedicated to the quest to understand life’s greatest mystery: What do women want?

無數(shù)的書籍、網(wǎng)站、文章和電影都致力于探索生活中最大的奧秘：女人到底想要什么樣的伴侶?

Kindness is the No. 1 quality women overwhelmingly want to see in their lover, according to one of the most extensive surveys on what women look for in a long-term partner, compiled by social science researchers at the University of Göttingen in Germany and the female health app Clue.

德國哥廷根大學(xué)(University of Gottingen)的社會(huì)科學(xué)研究人員，與女性健康應(yīng)用程序“Clue”，聯(lián)合組織的一項(xiàng)關(guān)于女性尋找長期伴侶的調(diào)查顯示，善良是女性最想在愛人身上看到的品質(zhì)。

The survey polled more than 64,000 people in 180 countries, asking them about their ideal match — from religious or political preferences to the importance of height. Most women asked identified as heterosexual, but queer and bisexual women also responded. The survey skews young: Nearly 40,600 of the women are ages 18 to 24, with the 25-to-29 age group the second biggest demo. Just under 3,800 were 40 years or older.

這項(xiàng)調(diào)查對(duì)180個(gè)國家的6.4萬多人進(jìn)行了訪問，詢問他們心目中的理想伴侶——從宗教或政治偏好到身高的重要性。大多數(shù)被問及的女性都是異性戀，但同性戀和雙性戀女性也做出了回應(yīng)。該調(diào)查以年輕人為調(diào)查對(duì)象:近40600名女性年齡在18歲至24歲之間，25歲至29歲年齡段的女性人數(shù)也很多，還有將近3800人年齡在40歲以上。

Almost 90% of the women rank kindness highest among desirable qualities, followed closely by supportiveness at 86.5%. Intelligence received about 72% of the vote; level of education had 64.5%; and rounding out the Top 5 is confidence, with a little over 60%.

近90%的女性認(rèn)為善良是最可取的品質(zhì)，其次是樂于助人，占比86.5%，才智占比72%，教育水平占比64.5%，排名前5位還有自信，占比略高于60%。

Notice “attractiveness” did not top the list. That might explain why the “average” body type (looking at you, dad bods!) was vastly preferred over “very muscular” types, with 44.8% versus a marginal 2.5%, respectively.

我們注意到“吸引力”并沒有排在首位，這也許可以解釋為什么“平均”體型(看看你，爸爸的身材!)比“肌肉發(fā)達(dá)”體型更受歡迎，前者為44.8%，后者僅為2.5%。

Of course appearance does matter: More than 90% of women want a partner who is taller than them. Heterosexual and homosexual women agreed that an attractive smile, then attractive eyes, were the two most important physical features — but responses diverged from there. Lesbian women completed their Top 5 with average breasts, an average butt and an attractive back, whereas heterosexual women put average penis as No. 3, followed by large hands and, interestingly, a short head of hair — Fabio is so 1995.

當(dāng)然外表也很重要:超過90%的女性想要一個(gè)比她們高的伴侶。異性戀和同性戀女性都認(rèn)為迷人的微笑和迷人的眼睛是最重要的兩個(gè)身體特征，但之后的排序卻不盡相同。女同性戀者將平均的胸部、平均的臀部和迷人的背部排在前五名，而異性戀女性則將平均的陰莖排在第三，然后是大手，然后是短發(fā)——有趣的是，要像法比奧1995年那樣的短發(fā)。

As for the soul? Globally speaking, only about 25% of participants said religious similarity was very important to them. However, of all the countries represented, women in the United States were most concerned with religion, with nearly 40% saying it’s a crucial aspect of a relationship.

至于信仰呢?從全球來看，只有約25%的受訪者表示相同信仰非常重要。而在所有參與調(diào)查的國家中，美國女性是最看重宗教信仰的，近40%的美國女性表示宗教信仰在一段關(guān)系中至關(guān)重要。

And money doesn’t hurt either. The United States was among the Top 5 nations to rank financial security as very important, with almost 60% saying so. Women from Japan, Mexico and Colombia are hoping to marry rich, too.

沒人不愛錢，美國是將財(cái)務(wù)列為非常重要的5個(gè)國家之一，有近60%投票，其他來自日本、墨西哥和哥倫比亞的女性也希望嫁給有錢人。

Men weren’t entirely shut out from the survey: Clue analyzed just under 700 responses from men in the US, who also say kindness is most crucial with 85.5%. As with women, supportiveness, intelligence and education came next.

這項(xiàng)調(diào)查并沒有完全排除男性參與的可能性：線索調(diào)查分析了美國男性不到700次的反饋，其中85.5%的人認(rèn)為善良是最重要的，與女性一樣，其次是樂于助人、智力和教育。

The only difference between what men and women want came fifth: While men rank ambition as the fifth most important trait, women said that confidence took that place.

男女唯一的區(qū)別是第五：男人把野心排在第五位，而女人把自信排在第五位。