為什么覺得上司太討厭？遇到糟糕的上司該怎么辦

今天的這段對話，在討論發(fā)牢騷，

為什么覺得上司太討厭？遇到糟糕的上司該怎么辦
 
來聽今天的講解:
 
A: How was your day?
 
今天過得怎么樣？
 
B: I don't think you really want to hear about it.
 
我想你不會想聽我發(fā)牢騷的。
 
A: It can't have been that bad. Go on and tell me about it.
 
情況能有多糟糕呢，跟我說說吧。
 
B: To be honest, it was horrible. My manager is such a pain in the neck.
 
老實說，真是糟透了。我上司實在是太討厭了。
 
A: Why? What happened?
 
為什么這么說？出什么事了？
 
B: Well, he made quite a few mistakes on a monthly report and when his supervisor found them, my manager blamed them on me.
 
他寫的每月報告里出了好多錯，結(jié)果他的主管發(fā)現(xiàn)之后，他居然都賴在我頭上。
 
A: That's not fair. What did you do?
 
真是不公平，那你該怎么辦？
 
B: There wasn't really anything that I could do. There's always been a lot of bad blood between my manager and myself. If I had said anything, he would have fired me for sure.
 
實際上，我無計可施。我們倆的關(guān)系一直很緊張，只要我隨便說點兒什么，他肯定就會把我給炒了。
 
A: Does he treat everyone in the department like this?
 
他對你們部門的其他人也是這樣嗎？
 
B: He treats everyone pretty poorly. But the way he treats me really takes the cake.
 
他對每個人都不怎么樣，但尤其對我可以說是壞到極點了。
 
A: Do you have any idea why he treats you worse than the others?
 
你知道他為什么對你比其他人還糟糕嗎？
 
B: I really have no idea.
 
我真是不明白。
 
A: Is there anyone else you can talk to about it at your company?
 
這些遭遇，你能跟公司里的其他什么人交流嗎？
 
B: Not really. I'm hoping to live with it for a while until I get a promotion.
 
恐怕不能，我只希望自己能堅持忍耐直到升職。
 
A: That's very sensible. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders.
 
這樣很理智，你能這么想說明你還挺聰明的。
 
B: I try to be sensible about it, but it's not very easy. Sometimes I just have to grin and bear it.
 
我努力讓自己盡量保持客觀去看待這件事，但真是不容易做到，有時我不得不逆來順受。