你怎么看待遠距離戀愛

今天的這段對話，在討論遠距離戀愛，
 
有些情侶因不同的原因不得不分居兩地，你怎么看待遠距離戀愛
 
來聽今天的講解:
 
A: So how do you feel about long distance relationships?
 
你怎么看遠距離戀愛？
 
B: Not that good. I had two relationships by now and both of them ended after me going somewhere. First time I was in Denmark but like I lived on a school in another city and while I was there for four months like I think two months after I went home to him and broke up and then came back to the school and just didn't really care. And then the second time I went traveling and I missed him so much and I came back and realized that there was nothing left. I'd lost everything while I was away so I don't, after one month, after two months, I think it just doesn't work for me if it's not really special.
 
不太好。我談過兩次戀愛，這兩次戀情都是在我搬到其他地方以后結(jié)束的。第一次戀情，當時我在丹麥，我住在另一座城市的學(xué)校里，我在那里待了四個月的時間，我記得應(yīng)該是兩個月以后，我回家去和他分手，然后回到學(xué)校繼續(xù)學(xué)習，當時我并沒有那么在乎。第二次，我在旅行的時候非常想他，我回來以后發(fā)現(xiàn)什么都沒留下。我離開的時候失去了一切，我認為，在一兩個月以后，如果不是那么在乎我，那就不適合我。
 
A: Yeah, I guess you're kind of like me. I have to see the person.
 
對，我想你和我一樣。我必須要見到那個人。
 
B: Exactly.
 
沒錯。
 
A: Almost, you know, daily.
 
而且差不多每天都要見。
 
B: Exactly and you can have conversations online and on the phone but if there's no, I don't know, it doesn't have to be much, just like be close, see each other in the eye.
 
沒錯，雖然可以在網(wǎng)上聊天或者打電話，可是那沒有親眼見到那個人那樣親密。
 
A: It's a big difference, yeah. I did a month when I went home to Australia away...
 
有很大的區(qū)別。我回澳大利亞的時候和她分開了一個月。
 
B: This summer?
 
今年夏天嗎？
 
A: Yeah, this recent summer and like Skype is just not enough. Do you know what I mean? You can see the person, you can talk to them, you know you can kiss the camera if you want but it's not...
 
對，就是夏天，用Skype視頻通話根本不夠。你懂我的意思嗎？你可以見到那個人，你們可以聊天，如果你想你也可以親吻鏡頭，可是……
 
B: If you want.
 
如果你想。
 
A: You know it's not the same but that's not to say I don't think, some people can do it.
 
你知道那并不一樣，不過我知道，有人可以做到。
 
B: I figure if it's a very, like if the relationship is very, it's very passionate or you've been going on for a long time because both of my relationships were under one year I think. The first one was one year and the second one was half a year. So if we're used to staying together then I think you can work it out. I'm just too impatient.
 
我想，如果一段戀愛充滿激情，而且戀愛關(guān)系維持了很長時間，是可以做到的，不過我的兩段戀情都沒有超過一年就結(jié)束了。第一段戀情維持了一年，第二段只維持了半年。如果我們習慣于待在一起，那是可以堅持下去的。我太沒有耐心了。
 
A: Yeah, I guess under a year you haven't really learned to depend on the other person all the time.
 
對，我想不到一年的時間，你們還沒有學(xué)會要一直互相依靠。
 
B: Exactly.
 
沒錯。
 
A: Or...
 
或者……
 
B: Still going by the passion and if you can't see the person every day or like whenever you want, then the passion just slowly fades.
 
至于熱情，如果你們不能每天都見面，或者不能隨時見面，那熱情也會漸漸消退的。
 
A: Yeah, agreed.
 
沒錯，我同意。
 
B: But this is your first relationship right?
 
這是你的初戀，對吧？
 
A: Yes it is and I did one month when I went home away from the person and it was just...
 
沒錯，我回家的時候和她分開了一個月的時間……
 
B: And that was the first time you ever went away from the person?
 
這是你們第一次分開嗎？
 
A: Yeah and it was just aah horrible, horrible, horrible, horrible.
 
對，感覺非常糟糕，非?？膳?，非常不好。
 
B: I remember the first time I like traveled while my boyfriend was still at home and it was a week and I was devastated so it's, if it's passionate it's...
 
我記得我第一次外出旅行而男朋友留在家里的那一星期，我感覺極度不安，如果熱情……
 
A: Well I did Christmas away from them when I went to Christmas, I did India for Christmas last year.
 
我圣誕節(jié)的時候有和女朋友分開過，我去年去印度過的圣誕節(jié)。
 
B: OK.
 
好。
 
A: And two weeks was bad enough and then a month and I was just pulling my hair out, do you know? So.
 
當時我們分開了兩個星期，那已經(jīng)夠糟糕了，而這次分開了一個月，我簡直要抓狂了，你懂那種感覺嗎？
 
B: Yeah, it's hard.
 
對，非常難。
 
A: It, yeah, it certainly is.
 
對，當然很難了。
 
B: Yeah.
 
對。