Step 1: Smile and say, "Thank you" 微笑著說謝謝
Smile and say, “Thank You” when someone offers you a compliment.
Step 2: Avoid deflection 不要妄自菲薄
Avoid deflecting the compliment or pointing out your weaknesses. This is a sign of low self-esteem.
Step 3: Own accomplishments 贊美源于努力
Own your accomplishments and be proud of your hard work. Don’t try to pass them off as luck.
Step 4: Return compliment 學會贊美對方
Return a compliment with one directed at the person who complimented you.
Step 5: Be gracious 要彬彬有禮
Don’t negate or dismiss the compliment – this may be viewed as selfish or insincere. Be gracious when accepting compliments. Treat compliments as you would a tangible gift or present.
重點詞匯:
compliment
n. 1. 贊美(話), 恭維(話)
2. 向…送禮以表示敬意
3. 問候;致意;祝賀
deflection
n. .(尤指擊中某物后)突然轉向,偏斜,偏離
an erratic deflection from an intended course
意外的偏離既定的道路
The smallest deflection of the missile could bring disaster.
導彈有極微小的偏斜也可能釀出大禍。
accomplishment
n.;成就;完成的工作
The series of paintings is quite an accomplishment.
這一系列的繪畫真是了不起的成就。
Several important milestones in foreign policy have been passed by this Congress and they can be chalked up as major accomplishments.
這次代表大會通過了對外政策中幾起劃時代的事件,并且它們可作為主要成就記錄下來。
Gracious
adj. 1.有禮貌的, 仁慈的, 和藹的, 親切的
She was a very gracious lady.
她是一位非常和藹可親的女士。
She was gracious enough to show us round her home.
她彬彬有禮地領我們參觀了她的家。
2.富裕的, 舒適的, 華美的
All this gracious living isn't for me; I prefer the simple life.
這優(yōu)裕的生活不適合我, 我寧愿過簡樸的生活。
3.富貴安逸的