Have a dating policy. Meeting for a weekday lunch will provide a limited time frame and a safe, public location.
Step1:制定約會政策。周末午餐約會給你提供有限的時間和安全的、公眾的約會地點。
Step 2: Be graceful(保持優(yōu)雅)
Be graceful and keep up your end of the conversation, even if sparks aren’t flying.
Step2 保持優(yōu)雅。約會期間一定要把談話進行到底,即使你失去了熱情和激情!
Remain tactful. Express disappointment without negativity. Say, “I’m having a good time but I was hoping we’d have more chemistry.” If your date seems nervous and awkward, tell them you’re feeling the same way and suggest ending the date.
Step3 保持機智。不要消極地向對方表達你的失望,你可以換種方式說:“我玩的很開心,但是我一直希望咱們之間能有更多來電的感覺。”如果你感覺約會很緊張很尷尬,就直接告訴對方,然后建議結束這場約會。
Be honest at the end of a bad date and say why you don’t want to go out again. For instance, “You’re nice but we don’t have a lot in common.” Or, “You have interesting things to say but the conversation was more one-sided than I like.”
Step4 一定要真誠。如果你不想約會就向對方說明原因。比如:“你人很好,但是咱們沒有共同之處。”或“你是一個善于言談很有風趣的人,但是我不喜歡每次談話都由一個人掌控。”
Get up and leave if a date is touchy-feely, rude, abusive, or drunk
Step5起身離開。如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)你的約會對象很煽情,粗魯,酗酒,還等什么,趕緊起身走人!